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Prayers Against Spiritual Forces and Realms of Darkness

When conflicts arise across the globe, it draws our attention.  We might feel concerned, yet the conflict is often ‘there’ and not here, we’re not often touched by what’s going on.  But if things escalate and our troops are deployed, our concern grows and we begin to have a vested interest in what’s happening.  


Once we have someone ‘in the fight’, though, we start praying differently, don’t we?  We pray in earnest for their safety and for a quick resolution to the conflict.  We pray against evil and for good to prevail.  We think about it every waking moment and we plead with the Lord for their safety and deliverance.  We want to see things resolve quickly and peacefully.  But then, as things calm and normalcy returns we likely breathe a sigh of relief and return to our lives, glad that it’s over and we move on as if the danger is done.


Yet every day, EVERY DAY, our sons and daughters are walking around in a world that is rife with conflict of a spiritual nature and they are the target of the enemy.  Satan is at work and he doesn’t rest.  He has demons deployed throughout every inch of this earth…it is his kingdom, after all.  He’s seeking to deceive and destroy.  Believers are strangers and aliens living in the midst of his territory and he wants nothing more than to turn us to his side or destroy us and remove us from life here.  Just look at the news… it’s horrifying to see what people are doing to one another in the name of ‘freedom’ and ‘rights’... but it’s clearly motivated by pure evil and the enemy’s desire to destroy image-bearers.  


Exodus 15:9 “The enemy boasted, ‘I will pursue, I will overtake them. I will divide the spoils; I will gorge myself on them. I will draw my sword and my hand will destroy them.’”   


Isn’t this what our enemy intends?  Satan wants to overtake us and destroy us.  He laughs at evil and delights in destruction.  If he can make one of God’s children fall, he celebrates.  If he can pull one away from the cross, he counts it a victory.


1 Peter 5:8 “Be alert and of sober mind.  Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.”  



Parents, we need to step up our game.  We need to take this seriously and not just assume that our sons and daughters will ‘fight the good fight’.  Are we praying as if our sons and daughters are at war?  If not, we should, because they are.  They face an enemy that is far more devious and dangerous than those we can see.


Ephesians 6:12 “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the powers, against the world forces of this darkness, against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.

And how does Paul describe our enemy?  Pay attention, he uses words and descriptions that should sober us and take us to our knees. Each word is shown in Greek with the corresponding definition.


  • Rulers- arche- “The beginning or origin, the first place, principality, rule, magistracy, the term is transferred by the apostle Paul to angels and demons holding dominions entrusted to them in the order of things.” (1)

  • Powers- exousia- “force, capacity, competency, delegated influence:—authority, jurisdiction, liberty, power, right, strength.  The leading and more powerful among created beings superior to man, spiritual potentates; used in the plural of a certain class of angels.” (2)

  • World forces- kosmokratōr- “lord of the world, prince of this age: the devil and demons, the world-rulers of this darkness.” (3)

  • Spiritual forces- pneumatikos- “non-carnal, i.e. (humanly) ethereal, or (demonically) a spirit, belonging to a spirit, or a being higher than man but inferior to God, a wicked spirit.” (4)

  • Wickedness- ponēria- “depravity, iniquity, wickedness, malice, evil purposes and desires.” (5)

  • Heavenly places- epouranios- “the heavenly regions.” (6)


We, our sons and daughters, and all other believers are going up against the ruler of this world, all of the powers that work alongside him, throughout all time and across every inch of this earth, that are more superior to and more powerful than man; fallen angels, demons and potentates of regions and kingdoms that we cannot see but that we fall under as created men.  Think about that.  It is a darkness that is invasive and a wickedness that Jesus himself rebuked with scripture.  It’s an enemy that masters legions, personifies depravity and seeks to accomplish evil purposes.  How can we begin to think we should not be aware and on guard?!


And all of this takes place in the heavenly realms.  Take note, friends.  We live in more than just a tangible world.  There is more to what we experience than the three dimensions we can recognize with our senses.  We have a spiritual nature that supersedes this world and that, friends, is why we can enter the Throne room of God and plead with Him on behalf of our loved ones.  We can intercede for them as His child, His beloved.  We have access to the Almighty, the Maker of Heaven and Earth, the Great I Am who was, is and is to come.  We can stand against these spiritual forces, but only when we put on the full armor of God and acknowledge the dangers and powers of the enemy.  And we must.  


We cannot go up against such opposition with a casual approach.  Our sons and daughters must be aware and on guard.  The family of God is under attack and the easiest target is the one who is unaware and unconcerned.  Let’s not be easy prey.


We must daily lift up our families asking the Holy Spirit to guide, protect, and intervene on their behalf.  Are we praying that our sons and daughters learn how to use the armor of God with skill and regularity?  Friends, the war is unfolding all around us.  We are foolish to think it won’t touch us….or that it hasn’t already.  


This week, let’s pray Psalm 27 over our sons and daughters to specifically ask the Lord for protection and victory and for growth and fruit in their faith.  Insert their names in the appropriate places.  Pray often and with hope.



Psalm 27

  1. The Lord is (name)’s light and (name)’s salvation—
        whom shall they fear?
    The Lord is the stronghold of (name)’slife—
        of whom shall they be afraid?

  2. When the wicked advance against (name)
        to devour (them),
    it is their enemies and their foes
        who will stumble and fall.

  3. Though an army besiege (name),
        their heart will not fear;
    though war break out against (name),
        even then they will be confident.

  4. One thing I ask from the Lord,
        this only do I seek:
    that (name) may dwell in the house of the Lord
        all the days of their life,
    to gaze on the beauty of the Lord
        and to seek him in his temple.

  5. For in the day of trouble
        He will keep (name) safe in His dwelling;
    He will hide (name) in the shelter of His sacred tent
        and set (name) high upon a rock.

  6. Then (name)’s head will be exalted
        above the enemies who surround them;
    at His sacred tent (name) will sacrifice with shouts of joy;
        (name) will sing and make music to the Lord.

  7. Hear my voice when I call, Lord;
        be merciful to me and answer me.

  8. My heart says of You, “Seek His face!”
        Your face, Lord, I will seek.

  9. Do not hide Your face from me,
        do not turn Your servant away in anger;
        You have been my helper.
    Do not reject me or forsake me,
        God my Savior.

  10. Though my father and mother forsake me,
        the Lord will receive me.

  11. Teach (name) Your way, Lord;
        lead (name) in a straight path
        because of their oppressors.

  12. Do not turn (name) over to the desire of their foes,
        for false witnesses rise up against (name),
        spouting malicious accusations.

  13.  [May] (name) remain confident of this:
        (name) will see the goodness of the Lord
        in the land of the living.

  14. Wait for the Lord;
        be strong and take heart
        and wait for the Lord.

Pray without ceasing.

  1. G746 - archē - Strong's Greek Lexicon (niv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g746/niv/mgnt/0-1/

  2. G1849 - exousia - Strong's Greek Lexicon (niv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g1849/niv/mgnt/0-1/ 

  3. G2888 - kosmokratōr - Strong's Greek Lexicon (nasb95). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g2888/nasb95/mgnt/0-1/

  4. G4655 - skotos - Strong's Greek Lexicon (nasb95). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g4655/nasb95/mgnt/0-1/ 

  5. G4189 - ponēria - Strong's Greek Lexicon (nasb95). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g4189/nasb95/mgnt/0-1/

  6. G2032 - epouranios - Strong's Greek Lexicon (nasb95). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g2032/nasb95/mgnt/0-1/

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The Value of Discipline

“No discipline seems pleasant at the time, but painful.  Later on, however, it produces a harvest of righteousness and peace for those who have been trained by it.”  Hebrews 12:11


Ask any parent whose son or daughter has shipped off to boot camp and they’ll tell you… they don’t like to think about what their kids will face when they’re there.  The yelling, the humiliation, the long days…and longer nights- it all makes a Momma’s heart ache with concern.  We want to protect them from harm and to those looking on, the practices certainly look harmful.  We’ve all heard the stories of excruciating exertion and the drills that tax body, mind and spirit - it’s something we’d rather not see our sons or daughters experience.  But it’s all part of the training.  We might look at it and think that it’s too much, it’s too harsh, it’s overkill.  If we were there we might be tempted to step in and put a stop to it, give them all a break, give the drill sergeant the ‘stink eye’ for being too hard and unkind.  We’d want to protect them…. But by helping them avoid the testing, we’d actually be doing them harm.  All of those hard things are training them  for hardship and building discipline that will carry them through.  It’s preparing them for war.  That’s even harder to think about.


If our soldiers are called upon to defend our country or to assist an ally, they will be stretched beyond their limits and will endure more than they imagined.  They will be sleep deprived.  They will be exhausted beyond their limits, but still pushed to give more.  They will need to think fast, make life-altering decisions and pursue them with conviction.  They will face the enemy and they’ll need to know how to respond.  Then, we would be glad for the extreme training they endured because it would make us more confident in their ability to withstand the dangers of war and the advances of the enemy.  Boot camp is hard and downright painful.  But it’s necessary and it’s all designed with the intention of preparing the soldier to survive and to win the battle because the enemy doesn’t fight with compassion…the enemy fights to destroy.


The question is, do we want our sons and daughters to be comfortable or to be victorious?  Our sons and daughters are not possibly headed to war, they’re already there.  Do they have the spiritual discipline to be victorious?

Do we want our sons and daughters to be comfortable or to be victorious? 

God tells us we have an enemy that seeks to destroy us, spiritually. 

 

1 Peter 5:8-10 “Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.  Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that the family of believers throughout the world is undergoing the same kind of sufferings.  And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast.”


He assures us that we will all face trials, hardships, and opposition, but these will come to test, strengthen, and build our faith so that we can resist the enemy and come out victorious.  Without that testing, we wouldn’t be able to stand firm and without discipline, we wouldn’t produce fruit that gives evidence that we belong to Christ.


James 1:2-4 “ Consider it pure joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith produces perseverance. Let perseverance finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything.” 


That word “produce” in Hebrews 12:11 is the word “apodidommi” in Greek and it means “to deliver again, give again, restore, reward and yield.” (1)  If we accept God’s plan of discipline and training, it will pay off each and every time we go to battle!  The training will make us strong and help us endure and come out victorious.  


Are we spiritually prepared and strengthened to go up against the enemy?  

Ephesians 6:12 “For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.”


Friends, it’s not a scheduled conflict.  We don’t ‘show up’ for a fight, this is guerilla warfare.  The enemy stalks us while we’re unaware, he attacks us when we’re weak and unprepared.  He seeks to lean into our weaknesses and bait us with those desires that are not of God.  He has armies who advance against us, so we had better be prepared.  No discipline is pleasant at the time, but when we’re in the midst of battle, we’ll be thankful for it, because it will produce a harvest of peace and righteousness.  It will protect us from defeat.  It will be the strength and preparation we need to be steadfast against the enemy and to be victorious in Jesus Christ.  


We can’t balk if our sons and daughters are called into a spiritual boot camp, because that tells us God is preparing them to be stronger, more secure in their faith, and for a greater work for His kingdom.  So, rather than worry about how WE can protect them, let’s get on our knees FOR them.  Pray for their endurance.  Pray for their strength.  Pray that they can see, with spiritual eyes, what God is calling them to and preparing them for.  Pray that they remain steadfast and see beyond the realm of the tangible to the spiritual realm where they will do battle with the enemy.  And pray for victory.



“Almighty Father, You are Sovereign over all my son or daughter may face today.  I pray that You would strengthen (name) to walk unwaveringly with You.  Keep their steps firm and make their path straight.  Give (name) confidence to trust You, even when life gets difficult.  Don’t let (name) weaken or lose their grip, but help them cling tightly to You.  Carry them through the hardships they may face today and in the coming days.  Increase their faith.  Call to mind Scripture that will encourage them and keep them focused on You.  I pray, Father, that You would guard them in Jesus’ name.  Protect them from the enemy.  When they are pressed on every side, surround them with Your Presence.  When they are burdened with difficulty, lift them up and train their eyes to look to You.  When they are in deep waters, hold back the waves with Your mighty hand so they can see the Rock of Salvation to which they must cling.  Lord, build in them the discipline they need to remain faithful to You.  I pray this all in the name and through the blood of Jesus, amen.”


Pray without ceasing.




  1. G591 - apodidōmi - Strong's Greek Lexicon (niv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g591/niv/mgnt/0-1/

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Of Giants, Valleys, and Godly Parents

We’re all familiar with the story of David and Goliath.  We know a bit about David’s family, too.  Three of his brothers were in the service of Saul’s army, though he had 7 brothers, altogether.  David was the youngest of them and he tended the sheep.  Their father’s name was Jesse, the son of Obed, who was the son of Ruth and Boaz.  David had a godly heritage.  

But have you ever wondered about David’s mother?  She’s not mentioned in the Bible, but her influence is there, if you stop and look.


But first, let’s agree on a major factor of parenthood.  We strive to protect our children, right?  We watch over them, teach them to be cautious and careful.  We caution them against danger and we encourage them to avoid those people, locations, and situations that could lead to harm.


Now, imagine you’re standing in the sandals of David’s mother.  An unnamed woman only referred to in Scripture one time (bear with me, we’ll get there).  But her influence is evident if we look closely.  And the impact she had on her son gave him wisdom and guidance for years to come, and impacted the heritage of the Messiah.  


When David encountered Goliath, scholars estimate he was likely in his teens.  His brothers were old enough to serve in the army, but David was not.  Saul even called him a ‘youth’ (1 Samuel 17:33)  Yet, in spite of his age, he demonstrated character, faith, and bravery beyond his years.


David went toward the conflict.

David, following his father’s direction, went to the camp of the Israelite army to deliver food and supplies to his brothers (1 Samuel 17:17-18).  Any good mother likely would have added, “You go and you come right back- be safe!” Yet, David’s mother didn’t argue, resist or try and keep him from going toward the conflict. She didn’t shield him from it.  That’s brave, friends.

Do we pray that our sons and daughters avoid the conflict, or do we pray they are kept safe in the midst of it?


David was prepared, even before he knew he would fight a giant.

David’s mother wasn’t there to tell him how to fight, but it’s likely she reminded him to always step out prepared.  As a shepherd, he needed to defend his sheep and where there was one enemy or predator, there would likely be more lurking, awaiting the opportunity to attack.  David’s mother knew that - she surely heard the story of the lion…and the bear (1 Samuel 17:34-36).  So she certainly reminded him of the danger and encouraged him to be ready.


David also knew conflict typically wasn’t resolved with one stone or by one fight.  He fully depended on God for the victory, but knew it might require more than one throw, so he collected five stones.  (There is history to suggest that Goliath had 4 brothers 2 Samuel 21:15-22).  David was prepared for whatever God led him into that day.


Do we speak into our sons and daughters so they walk out prepared?  Are we reminding them of the spiritual dangers they may face?  Training doesn't start after the battle begins.  No, the training and preparation begin in order to be ready when the conflict occurs, and it will occur.  Are we reminding our sons and daughters of the importance of time in the Word and fellowship with other believers to sharpen them?  Are they cognizant of the dangers they may face and intentional to be ready when they come?  We need to pray that they are.


David didn’t allow the taunts and words of others to deter him, deflate his courage, or damage his faith.

When David offered to face Goliath, David’s own brothers hurled angry words and insults at him, mocking his bravery and casting him aside.  They had no faith in his ability and their warrior-egos were offended at the thought.


But Goliath’s words were what struck a chord with David.  Goliath didn’t just mock Israel, he mocked God (I Samuel 17:36-37)

You see, David wasn’t defending himself.  He was standing up for the fear and reputation of Jehovah, the Almighty God. 


Parents, have we taught our sons and daughters to fear God?  Do we encourage them to defend the name of Jesus Christ, no matter the cost?  Believers in so many nations around the world know the cost of claiming Jesus as Lord, but Western cultures don’t often face that, in fact, we often are indifferent to the cost because we haven’t suffered.  Someday soon we may come face to face with that. We must all be ready.


Oh how we need to pray that:

1. Our sons and daughters would listen for and hear the Word of the Lord over the words of the world

2. That they would defend the name of Jesus, no matter the cost



David stepped into the valley to face the giant.

David didn’t run away from the conflict, he walked toward it.  The Israelite camp was on a hill on one side of the Elah Valley and the Philistine camp was on the other.  There was no misdirection or error in David’s steps.  He went down into the valley.  Now, read Psalm 23:4 

“Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for you are with me; your rod and your staff, they comfort me.”  

There is no evidence to say his Goliath encounter was David’s inspiration for Psalm 23:4, but it surely gives us something to ponder! It helps us look at it in a new light.


Do we encourage our sons and daughters to have strong faith in the Lord that will strengthen them as they face hardships?  Or do we pray they avoid the hard things?  Do we pray they are protected from suffering? Because if we do, we’re actually praying them to a weakened faith. Think about that. Our effort to shield and protect them can actually leave them weak and vulnerable!

Romans 5:3-5 ““we rejoice in our sufferings, knowing that suffering produces endurance, and endurance produces character, and character produces hope, and hope does not put us to shame, because God's love has been poured into our hearts through the Holy Spirit who has been given to us.””

Now, back to David’s mother

Though David’s mother isn’t mentioned by name in Scripture, her influence is noted by David in Psalm 86:16 “Turn to me and have mercy on me; show your strength on behalf of your servant; save me, because I serve you just as my mother did.” (NIV)

“I serve you just as my mother did.”  That’s a testimony that will preach, friends.  

It brings two questions:

  1. How are we serving God as parents?

  2. How are we praying for our sons and daughters?


Our children will face Goliaths.  They will walk in the valley.  They will be mocked and taunted.  But will they be prepared and will they fear God more than they fear man?


Today, let’s pray in the power of the Holy Spirit that God will transform our sons and daughters into bold spiritual warriors who will boldly face the enemy, not for their own glory, but for the name and fame of Jesus Christ and in the power of the Holy Spirit.


“Almighty Father, I come to You in the name of Your risen Son, Jesus and through the power of the Holy Spirit who indwells me because of Calvary.  Put Your hand on (name) today.  First, draw them in to spend precious time in Your word before they start their day.  Let their time be sacred and inspired, may it fill them with spiritual strength and boldness.  Prepare them, Lord, for what they may face.  Give them words to respond and courage to speak up for the name of Jesus.  If You lead them into the valley, surround them with Your protection.  Help (name) to fully realize that their victory is not dependent on their strength or wisdom, their cunning or skill, but fully on Your power and Presence in the battle.  Lord, I know they will face conflict.  I know they will walk through dark valleys in the presence of enemies, but I know You are greater, stronger and You are victorious.  Lord, be their armor and their light.  Open their eyes to see the necessity of being spiritually prepared.  And Lord, I pray that my life would be a testimony of being surrendered to you, wholly and completely..  I pray that my sons and daughters would one day pray “Turn to me and have mercy on me; show your strength on behalf of your servant; save me, because I serve you just as my mother (or father)did.” In Jesus’ mighty, victorious name I pray, Amen.”

Pray without ceasing.

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Whatever happens… are we ready?

Philippians 1:27-29  “Whatever happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ. Then, whether I come and see you or only hear about you in my absence, I will know that you stand firm in the one Spirit, striving together as one for the faith of the gospel without being frightened in any way by those who oppose you. This is a sign to them that they will be destroyed, but that you will be saved—and that by God. For it has been granted to you on behalf of Christ not only to believe in him, but also to suffer for him,”

When we become believers and followers of Christ, we hear about the wonderful ways we’ll enjoy God’s blessings, mercy and grace. What we don’t often spend time considering is the cost of following Jesus. For those of us living in the West, that’s not really something we’re confronted with very often. But believers in closed countries where Christianity is outlawed, the cost is understood….and sometimes, believers pay with their lives. And they’re willing. That should make us pause and do some introspection. Is our faith strong or are we inch-deep with fragile roots? And are we ready….for whatever happens...?

There is an ever-growing pressure on believers, worldwide.  Media, social and otherwise, decries our faith and our convictions as intolerant and abrasive.  Believers are taunted,  pressured, and shamed in an effort to pressure us to relent and relinquish the standards of our faith and soften our convictions.  The goal is that we would substitute our Lord for a lesser god that would not be offensive to those living in darkness and pursuing sin.  It’s true, to unbelievers Jesus is the Rock that makes them stumble and the stone that makes them fall (1 Pet 2:8).  This world is trying to diminish the power of the gospel and defame the name of Christ.  Christians are becoming more and more a target of ridicule and, in some countries, persecution and abuse.  And, friends, it’s only going to increase.   We are witnessing a battle between darkness and light unfold before our eyes. We have to be ready. So, how do we prepare our hearts and minds?

Scripture tell us we are called to suffer for Christ.  Are we ready? When everything starts to circle the drain (and at some point, it will), nothing else will matter.  When money is worthless and governments fall, when disorder reigns and religious freedom is a thing of the past, we need to be confident that our sons and daughters will stand firm in their faith. We want to be confident they will live by their convictions and they would be willing to give their all for Christ.  Friends, it’s happening in some places now.  Who is to say any nation would be immune?    Will our sons and daughters have a faith strong enough to withstand the pressure, the persecution?  Will they have an eternal perspective that allows them to view these light and momentary troubles as nothing compared to the eternal reward God has waiting?

We need to be on our knees praying a hedge of protection, a spiritual shield around our sons and daughters.  And it’s likely we’re pretty good at that, it’s likely we’ve been pleading for God’s protection since they were born. But we also need to pray that they will be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might (Eph. 6:10).  We need to pray that WHATEVER HAPPENS…. Whatever (that’s a hard word to wrap our Momma minds around, isn’t it?)  Whatever happens, that our sons and daughters would conduct themselves in a manner worthy of the gospel: suitable and befitting the gospel of Christ.

Let’s take time this week to memorize and pray through Philippians 1:27-29.  God’s word never returns void.  Scripture renews our minds.  And you’ll begin to see how Philippians 1:27-29 applies to so many things around you. Memorize, and then let’s pray for our sons and daughters:

  1. That whatever happens, they would conduct themselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ.  Worthy of Christ- oh how we should crave that as our heart’s desire.

  2. That they would stand firm in the Spirit.  They need to be listening to and sensitive to the Holy Spirit in their life.

  3. That they would strive, together with other believers, for the faith of the gospel. This means they need to be in fellowship with other believers.

  4. That they would not be afraid of those who oppose them.  (Can they spot the opposition?)

  5. That they would have confidence they will be saved by the Lord- He’s marked them as His own.

  6. If they are not walking with the Lord, pray that the Holy Spirit would stir in their heart and bring them to repentance.

  7. Pray that they would be ready, and willing, to suffer for Christ.   1 Peter 4:13 “But rejoice inasmuch as you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed.”  and that they would be rejoicing that His glory will be revealed in them.

We have a full week’s worth of prayer here. Be sure to set aside time to enjoy focused prayer. It’s not a drive-through, it’s more of a sit down meal. Take your time to savor this time with the Lord.

Consider journaling your thoughts and prayers.  Deepening your prayer life is not a ‘quick process’, but a deliberate one that requires you to be thoughtful and intentional and willing.  Write down how the Lord is speaking to you and note how He’s taking you deeper into prayer.  How do you see Him working?  And if you’re willing, share with us!


Pray without ceasing, friends.  



Philippians 1:27-29 “Whatever happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ. Then, whether I come and see you or only hear about you in my absence, I will know that you stand firm in the one Spirit, striving together as one for the faith of the gospel without being frightened in any way by those who oppose you. This is a sign to them that they will be destroyed, but that you will be saved—and that by God. For it has been granted to you on behalf of Christ not only to believe in him, but also to suffer for him,”

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Saturday Review

As we wrap up our week let’s continue praying for the wanderer and prodigal. God is able to do more than we ask or think and remember, the Spirit intercedes for us when we don’t know what to pray.

The Father longs for our wandering sons and daughters to turn to Him. Let’s lift our heavy hearts to Him.

If you missed our study this week on praying for the prodigal, you can watch the youtube video here: How To Pray for A Prodigal Child It might be a great place to start your Saturday Review.


Pray that:

  • Our sons and daughters would mourn and lament their sin.


  • That the Lord would open the eyes of their heart to see how grievous their choices are and how much their sin and rebellion distances them from God. 


  • Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation.


  • Hearts are broken over pride, selfishness and rebellion.  


  • That they see their path only leads to death and they are terrified by it.  


  • Pray that our sons and daughters know life and freedom in Christ.  


  • Pray for the change that will turn their eternity into one of hope, joy, light and life.


  • Pray the armor of God over  our sons and daughters, and then pray for the Spirit to intercede on their behalf and work in ways that are beyond what we might imagine for them.


Then, finish by reading Psalm 77.  As we pray these words to the Lord, let’s use them to remind ourselves of His goodness and faithfulness and His promises that never fail.

Pray without ceasing.

Psalm 77

“I cried out to God for help;

    I cried out to God to hear me.

When I was in distress, I sought the Lord;

    at night I stretched out untiring hands,

    and I would not be comforted.

I remembered you, God, and I groaned;

    I meditated, and my spirit grew faint.

You kept my eyes from closing;

    I was too troubled to speak. 

I thought about the former days,

    the years of long ago;

I remembered my songs in the night.

    My heart meditated and my spirit asked:

“Will the Lord reject forever?

    Will he never show his favor again?

Has his unfailing love vanished forever?

    Has his promise failed for all time?

Has God forgotten to be merciful?

    Has he in anger withheld his compassion?”

Then I thought, “To this I will appeal:

    the years when the Most High stretched out his right hand.

I will remember the deeds of the Lord;

    Yes, I will remember your miracles of long ago.

I will consider all your works

    and meditate on all your mighty deeds.”

Your ways, God, are holy.

    What god is as great as our God?

You are the God who performs miracles;

    you display your power among the peoples.

With your mighty arm you redeemed your people,

    the descendants of Jacob and Joseph.

The waters saw you, God,

    the waters saw you and writhed;

    the very depths were convulsed. 

The clouds poured down water,

    the heavens resounded with thunder;

    your arrows flashed back and forth.

Your thunder was heard in the whirlwind,

    your lightning lit up the world;

    the earth trembled and quaked.

Your path led through the sea,

    your way through the mighty waters,

    though your footprints were not seen.

You led your people like a flock

    by the hand of Moses and Aaron.”

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Protected, Powerful Prayer

Ephesians 6:10-13

“Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power.  Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes.  For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.”


Romans 8:26-27

“In the same way, the Spirit helps us in our weakness. We do not know what we ought to pray for, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us through wordless groans.  And he who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God.”


Praying for a prodigal son or daughter can be overwhelming.  It can drain us of joy, hope and energy, especially if we’re putting so much focus on pleading and interceding on their behalf that we neglect our own spiritual health.  


Remember the days when our children were infants?  We were exhausted just trying to meet their basic needs.  It seemed all-consuming.  Yet, we had to make the effort to eat, sleep and care for ourselves, because if we neglected ourselves too much, then we were not able to meet the needs of our little one. 


Friends, it’s much the same with our spiritual needs.  We are praying against the enemy himself and if we do not take time to ensure we are guarded, protected and shielded by our Savior, we run the risk of being a target as well.


We need to put on the full armor of God, daily.  The FULL armor.  We can’t go into this half-dressed.  We can’t just grab our shield of faith and call it good.  No, we need the helmet of salvation, the sword of the Spirit, the breastplate of righteousness, the belt of truth and feet that are ready with the gospel.  Only then are we equipped and ready to battle for the hearts and minds of our sons and daughters.


And when we don’t know what to pray?  That’s when we cry out to the Spirit and ask Him to intercede for us.  Who better to plead with the Father than the Spirit who knows what we need and can express it in words...rather groans that reach the heart of our Father.  “He who searches our hearts knows the mind of the Spirit, because the Spirit intercedes for God’s people in accordance with the will of God.”  And isn’t that what we want for our sons and daughters?  To be obedient and blessed in the will of God?


Today, let’s take time to pray the armor of God over ourselves and our sons and daughters, and then pray for the Spirit to intercede on their behalf and work in ways that are beyond what we might imagine for them.


Pray without ceasing.


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Boundaries of the Mind

Colossians 3:1-3 “Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is seated at the right hand of God.  Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God.”


Ah, remember the days of getting the kids cleaned up to go out somewhere?  We would get everyone changed, washed up and ready to go when we’d suddenly realize someone went back outside to play...in the dirt. Why?!  Well, although WE wanted to go out for dinner, it’s likely their heart was not in it.  They had values that drew them back to getting dirty again. It’s much like our spiritual lives, isn’t it?


When we make the decision to follow Christ, we make a shift in our affections, our values and our pursuits.  We leave those things that stained our hearts and minds and we begin pursuing God and His heart.  It’s no longer about ‘us’ but about Him.  We forfeit ‘self’ because the pursuit of what pleased us before Christ no longer captivates us...in fact, we likely find it empty.  


But the draw, the temptation to go back to the old life is always there.  We are sinful, fallen people and as much as we love the Lord, the fleshly part within us battles for our affections and will always try and lead us into temptation and back into sin.   Romans 7 states it well:

Romans 7:15, 18-25 “I do not understand what I do. For what I want to do I do not do, but what I hate I do. For I know that good itself does not dwell in me, that is, in my sinful nature.  For I have the desire to do what is good, but I cannot carry it out.  For I do not do the good I want to do, but the evil I do not want to do—this I keep on doing.  Now if I do what I do not want to do, it is no longer I who do it, but it is sin living in me that does it.  So I find this law at work: Although I want to do good, evil is right there with me. For in my inner being I delight in God’s law;  but I see another law at work in me, waging war against the law of my mind and making me a prisoner of the law of sin at work within me.  What a wretched man I am! Who will rescue me from this body that is subject to death?  Thanks be to God, who delivers me through Jesus Christ our Lord! So then, I myself in my mind am a slave to God’s law, but in my sinful nature a slave to the law of sin.”


And where does the struggle take place? Satan is subtle and cunning. He attacks the heart and mind and they become the battlefield of spiritual warfare. Because of that, we especially need to set boundaries that protect and guard us in those areas.  We need to seek Christ and His glory through our thoughts, words and actions.  


Colossians 1:1-3 provide great directives and boundaries for our lives.  Because we’ve been raised with Christ, we need to set our hearts on things above.  That’s an intentional action on our part to love the Lord and choose to pursue what honors Him.  Everything around us will battle for our affections- we must choose and pursue Christ.


We also need to set our minds on things above, not on earthly things.  We’ve been changed!!  Why would we go back and wallow in the things that soiled our hearts and minds?  And it’s not a ‘one and done’ effort.  It requires daily attention, commitment and intention. “Therefore we do not lose heart. Though outwardly we are wasting away, yet inwardly we are being renewed day by day.” (2 Corinthians 4:16)  Let’s embrace that daily renewal, let’s put boundaries in place and commit to follow Jesus well.


Today, let’s pray that our sons and daughters put healthy boundaries in place to guard their hearts and minds in Jesus.  Let’s pray that they set their thoughts and affections on things above so that Jesus has priority in their lives and their spiritual growth reflects His presence and preeminence in their lives.


Pray without ceasing



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A Prayer to Preserve Life

Psalm 143:11-12 For your name’s sake, LORD, preserve my life; in your righteousness, bring me out of trouble. In your unfailing love, silence my enemies; destroy all my foes, for I am your servant.


If you are a parent whose son or daughter is in the military, you likely pray something akin to Psalm 143:11-12 frequently. And your heart and head are likely very present with thoughts and concerns for the safety of your son or daughter. But friends, all our sons and daughters are in a battle, whether they serve in the military or not. It’s just that we’re not all as aware as we ought to be of the dangers and enemies they face. Our sons and daughters live in a war zone- the Earth, the territory of the Prince of Darkness. They are surrounded by spiritual enemies 24/7.  We don’t ‘see’ it so we often don’t pray as if our families are under attack.  But we need to. We need to pray as if the battle is raging, because it is. 

Have you watched the news lately?  Are you seeing things ‘ramp up’ and become more serious, more frequent….more crazy?  Satan knows his time is short.  He will do all he can to subvert, derail, distract and destroy believers. We are his target and he will show no mercy. He will attack and deceive. Can we all agree that strong prayer for spiritual protection and Divine intervention is the weapon we need to use daily?


Yes, of course we worry about the safety and well-being of our sons and daughters, but friends, we need to be very cognizant of their spiritual  health and safety too.  Today, let’s pray Psalm 143:11-12.  While we pray, let’s lift those who serve in the military.  Let’s pray for their safety and their spiritual walk.  Let’s pray for the Momma and Daddy hearts that love them and long for their safety.  Then, let’s pray for the spiritual health and safety of our sons and daughters.  


“For your name’s sake, Lord, preserve (name)’s life.  In your righteousness, bring them out of trouble.  Keep them surrounded with your guarding, protecting angels and keep watch over every step.  In your unfailing love, silence the enemy.  Keep Satan from impacting (name)’s life today.  Guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus.  Lord, for those serving to protect nations, we ask your protection and preservation of their life, health and well-being.  Lord, I pray that you would bring other believers who serve into the life of these loved ones, let there be fellowship, discipleship and accountability.  Encourage them in the hard times.  Be a light in the darkness for them.  Do not allow fear to overwhelm them.  Lord, I pray for the other parents here who need encouragement and reassurance.  Meet their needs today, Lord and do all for the glory of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ.  In His name we pray, Amen.”


Pray without ceasing, friends. God hears.

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He Hears Our Desperate Cries

Psalm 142:6 “Listen to my cry, for I am in desperate need; rescue me from those who pursue me, for they are too strong for me.”


This Psalm was written when David was running for his life, trying to escape King Saul.  But why was David on the run from Saul?  Let’s look at 1 Samuel 18.

1 Samuel 18:5-9  ““Whatever Saul sent him to do, David did it so successfully that Saul gave him a high rank in the army. This pleased all the people, and Saul's officers as well.

When the men were returning home after David had killed the Philistine, the women came out from all the towns of Israel to meet King Saul with singing and dancing, with joyful songs and with tambourines and lutes.

As they danced, they sang: "Saul has slain his thousands, and David his tens of thousands."

Saul was very angry; this refrain galled him. "They have credited David with tens of thousands," he thought, "but me with only thousands. What more can he get but the kingdom?"

And from that time on Saul kept a jealous eye on David.”

The conflict escalated to the point that, while David played his harp for him, Saul angrily threw a javelin at David in an attempt to kill him.  David ran for his life. He respected Saul’s position as the King, the anointed leader of Israel. David’s integrity guided his response. Although he could have bested him, David did not want to harm him.  So he ran.


Was David alone as he ran?  No, far from it.  He was surrounded by his mighty men of valor.  But David knew the battle belonged to the Lord.  Without God, there would be no victory.  Without God, those mighty men had no strength.  David knew his first cry must always be to the Lord.  And what an example he set for his men!  Here, this mighty man, lauded for killing tens of thousands, was crying out to the Lord for protection and strength, for rescue and deliverance. He was looking to God alone. David knew how to align his plan of attack.  First kneel.  Then listen.  Then act.


Friends, how much time do we spend fretting and trying to figure out the answers?  How often do we allow our fretting to impact our sons and daughters, whether or not we do it intentionally?  We need to stop and pray.  We need to look to God alone- cry out to the Lord.  Then listen for His response and be patient for His timing.


Those who oppose us are strong and friends, there is likely spiritual warfare involved. We are weak and vulnerable with no way to protect ourselves and let’s be honest, the solutions and ‘fixes’ we come up with are limited. We have human abilities.  God is divine, His abilities exceed ours and His strength is supernatural. We need to cry out to Him and seek His protection. Let’s lead by example and cry out to the Lord, knowing He alone can save us.


Today, let’s list out those things that weigh heavily on our hearts and lay them before the Lord.  It may seem that the only way out is blocked by the Enemy, but we serve the God who defeated the Enemy long ago.  Let’s trust Him to make a way.

Then, let’s pray for our sons and daughters. Pray that they seek the Lord first and call out to Him. Let’s pray they refuse to take things into their own hands or rely on their own strength and ability. Let’s pray for a generation of “Davids” in a world full of angry “Sauls”.


Pray without ceasing.


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Prayer of Protection-Taking a Stand

Psalm 141:5-8

“Let a righteous man strike me—that is a kindness; let him rebuke me—that is oil on my head. My head will not refuse it, for my prayer will still be against the deeds of evildoers. Their rulers will be thrown down from the cliffs, and the wicked will learn that my words were well spoken.  They will say, “As one plows and breaks up the earth, so our bones have been scattered at the mouth of the grave.”  But my eyes are fixed on you, Sovereign LORD; in you I take refuge—do not give me over to death.”

The spiritual battles and deception that are going on today are strong.  The media pumps us with so many messages that defy the standard God sets. People fiercely fight for their rights even at the cost of others’ well being, safety and very lives.  They refuse to take responsibility for their actions and lack integrity in how they do business and life.  Society is so ‘me’ focused that there is little room to consider the ‘other’. 

Rather than take responsibility, we see people shifting blame and throwing others under the proverbial ‘bus’ to take the consequences. Rarely do we see anyone accept a rebuke, let alone accept it with a grateful heart. Daily we see the enemy’s lie of ‘self over all others’ and it is the tool he is using to destroy image bearers, both unbelievers and believers alike.

David likened a godly rebuke to being anointed with oil: a sacred act, a blessing and a sign of being set apart by God, chosen and appointed to a task. He was clear that he valued his integrity before God more than the opinion of others- especially the evildoers. He wouldn’t let word deter him from standing against evil. He was distressed and incensed at the actions of those who disregarded the Almighty God and he didn’t hide his strong opposition to their actions. He was more than willing to stand up to it and speak out against it. And he refused to allow their words against him to drive him to back down. Their rebuke meant nothing- it held no power against him because it held no measure of righteousness. He took a stand that would not compromise, no matter the opposition. Oh that our sons and daughters would have the strong conviction of David, set against evil!

We need to pray for divine spiritual protection and guidance over our sons and daughters.

  • Pray that our sons and daughters would be able to discern between Godly correction and evil oppression.

  • Pray against evildoers.  There are so many.  Keep them from influencing and harming our young men and women.  

  • Pray that our sons and daughters would have Godly wisdom and words to refute evildoers and stand against the enemy.  This highlights the need for them to remain in the Word and in Godly fellowship with other believers.

  • Pray that their eyes would remain fixed on the Lord and they would always seek and find their refuge in Him alone.

“Father, I come before You today and lift (name) to You.  Lord, let their heart remain soft to hear words of guidance and correction so they can be obedient to Your word.  Lord, don’t let them grow hardened but help them see the value of Godly guidance and appreciate those who would have courage to confront.  Lord, give them spiritual discernment to know when correction or criticism is righteous or an attack from the enemy. I pray that you would guard (name) against evildoers and the influence they have.  Lord, we know this is a battle that goes beyond just human influence and reaches into the spiritual realm.  I pray that Your angels would keep watch over (name) and guard them from the fiery darts of the enemy.  Shield them from evil, Lord.  I pray that they, too, would be compelled to pray against the evil they see in the world.  Don’t let them ‘settle’, become indifferent or turn a blind eye to the struggle.  Help them to stand up and pray against it.  Give them strength.  And if they’re confronted with evil, give them wisdom to know how to navigate the situation and wise words to speak to refute the deception.  Give them strength to stand strong in their faith and endurance to endure.  Lord, keep (name)’s eyes fixed on You.  Don’t let them look to the right or left.  Don’t let them fall to the wisdom of this world.  Be their refuge and strength, their very present Help in trouble.  In Jesus’ name, amen.”


Pray without ceasing.

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