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Dear Children…Don’t Let Anyone Lead You Astray

“Dear children, do not let anyone lead you astray. The one who does what is right is  righteous, just as he is righteous.  The one who does what is sinful is of the devil, because the devil has been sinning from the beginning. The reason the Son of God appeared was to destroy the devil’s work.”


Have you ever been deceived?  It’s an awful realization, isn’t it?  When you believe and trust in someone or something, only to realize that what you believed to be true, thought you understood and wholeheartedly supported is not what it seemed.  It can throw you for a loop.  And watching someone go through it can be equally as difficult…especially when that other person doesn’t recognize the deception.


Deception is a slippery slope that pulls people further and further from the Truth and into false hope, misdirected loyalty, and often, victimization.  Deception leads to loss of resources, relationships, and hope.  It’s a ploy of the enemy to convince people to believe a lie, isolate them from one another and keep them from following Christ.


But how do you recognize deception?  How can you spot a ‘fake’?  Those who are trained to spot fake money and art look for certain characteristics and inconsistencies.  But in order to do so, they have to have intricate knowledge of the original before they are able to spot a fake.  Our sons and daughters need to have strong knowledge of Scripture and a consistent, growing relationship with the Lord in order to protect themselves from deception. Inch-deep knowledge and casual practice of spiritual disciplines leave us vulnerable to being led astray by teachers whose teaching “sounds similar” but whose doctrine weaves in error and deception.  


The enemy will try to convince us that what we’re following is “okay” or “not really as bad as we might think”, or even label it as “my truth” so others cannot tell us it’s wrong. If he can do that, then he is accomplishing his goal of deception and disruption.   Lord have mercy!  Our sons and daughters need to be on guard!!  


1 John 3:7-8 says, “Dear children, do not let anyone lead you astray. The one who does what is right is righteous, just as he is righteous.  The one who does what is sinful is of the devil, because the devil has been sinning from the beginning. The reason the Son of God appeared was to destroy the devil’s work.”


So, how do we recognize and avoid deception?  How do we remain faithful? We need to pray that our sons and daughters will:


  • Recognize God’s Truth:  

    • Colossians 1:9-14 For this reason, since the day we heard about you, we have not stopped praying for you. We continually ask God to fill you with the knowledge of his will through all the wisdom and understanding that the Spirit gives, so that you may live a life worthy of the Lord and please him in every way: bearing fruit in every good work, growing in the knowledge of God, being strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that you may have great endurance and patience, and giving joyful thanks to the Father, who has qualified you to share in the inheritance of his holy people in the kingdom of light. For he has rescued us from the dominion of darkness and brought us into the kingdom of the Son he loves, in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins.”


  • Be able to identify falsehood

    • Jude 1:17-19 But, dear friends, remember what the apostles of our Lord Jesus Christ foretold. They said to you, “In the last times there will be scoffers who will follow their own ungodly desires.” These are the people who divide you, who follow mere natural instincts and do not have the Spirit.”

    • 2 John 2:7, 9-11 “I say this because many deceivers, who do not acknowledge Jesus Christ as coming in the flesh, have gone out into the world. Any such person is the deceiver and the antichrist. Anyone who runs ahead and does not continue in the teaching of Christ does not have God; whoever continues in the teaching has both the Father and the Son. If anyone comes to you and does not bring this teaching, do not take them into your house or welcome them.  Anyone who welcomes them shares in their wicked work.


  • Avoid evil: 

    • Proverbs 16:17 “The highway of the upright avoids evil; those who guard their ways preserve their lives.”

    • I John 1:6 “If we claim to have fellowship with him and yet walk in the darkness, we lie and do not live out the truth.”


  • Fellowship with other believers who walk in the Truth:

    • Acts 2:42 “They devoted themselves to the apostles’ teaching and to fellowship, to the breaking of bread and to prayer.”

    • 1 John 1:7 “But if we walk in the light, as he is in the light, we have fellowship with one another, and the blood of Jesus, his Son, purifies us from all sin.”


  • Listen to the Holy Spirit Who lives in us- He will help us recognize those who walk with Christ in genuine fellowship vs. those who are ‘posers’.

    • 1 John 4:6 “We are from God, and whoever knows God listens to us; but whoever is not from God does not listen to us. This is how we recognize the Spirit of truth and the spirit of falsehood.”


  • Strive to maintain a testimony that gives evidence of Christ in us- our life should speak truth and give evidence of Christ to others

    • 3 John 1:3 “ It gave me great joy when some believers came and testified about your faithfulness to the truth, telling how you continue to walk in it.”


Today, let’s pray these scriptures over our sons and daughters.  But let’s also pray for the Body of Believers.  Satan is strong, yes, but the God that lives in us is stronger and He holds the victory!!  Let’s pray He will surround us with His mighty protection and keep us walking faithfully.


Pray without ceasing.


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Dabbling in Darkness

“If we claim to have fellowship with Him, yet walk in darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth.”

1 John 1:6

Kids love water, don’t they?  Whether it’s a pool, a creek, or a puddle, there’s an attraction to get closer to just “look at it”.  We warn them not to get wet and we might hear the response, “Can’t I just put my feet in?”  And we all know, if the feet get wet, the rest of the child gets wet eventually.  They can’t help it, their “whole self” ends up soaked.  And when they come back, soaking wet, we ask them, “what happened, why didn’t you obey?”  The responses will likely include things like “I don’t know”, “It was an accident”, “I didn’t mean to get wet, it just happened” and the list goes on.


Sin is like that too.  There’s an attraction to just get a bit closer, but soon, we’re dipping our feet in and before we know it, we’re immersed.  We’re soaked in it.  We can tell others that we’re not dabbling in sin, but when we stand there, soaking wet with the evidence, our words hold no weight.


1 John 1:6 “If we claim to have fellowship with Him, yet walk in darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth.”


That word, “in”, is important to note.  It’s the Greek word, “en” and “denotes a fixed position in place, time or state.”  Think about it.  If we’re ‘in’ we have a fixed position(1).  There is no halfway or just a little.  Either we’re in or we’re out.  There is no in between.  It’s a powerful word.  


When we walk in sin, even if we’re just “dipping our feet in”, we are in.  We’re immersed.  We’re sinning.  We can’t dabble in darkness and not be impacted by it.  1 John tells us that if we claim to have fellowship with God, but walk in darkness, we lie and do not practice the truth.  Our location says a whole lot about our heart condition and our commitments.  Our talk, talks and our walk talks.  But our walk speaks much more loudly than our talk when it comes to giving evidence of what our heart loves.  We can say we love Jesus, but if our actions demonstrate otherwise, which do you think people will believe more?  Are we making choices and living in such a way that gives evidence that we love Jesus…or that we love something or someone else more?


1 John 1:1-6 uses the word “proclaim” several times.  That word means to give a report, which indicates one has seen evidence of something, it’s an affirmation.  Yet, 1 John 1:6 uses the word “claim”...there is no pro.  That’s the thing with sin.  If we’re involved in it, participating in it, we can claim we walk in truth, but there is no evidence. Our lives are proclaiming otherwise and giving evidence of fellowship with darkness.  How we live matters and sin impacts how we live.


This world is dark and temptation is strong.  If we think we can resist on our own, we’re deceived.   We cannot just ‘say’ we’re following the Lord, we have to demonstrate it, our lives need to give evidence, otherwise our words are empty and our testimony is worthless.   Our sons and daughters need us to walk with the Lord and give evidence that He is our focus, our passion, our God.  They need to see their parents, their elders, their role models modeling what it truly means to follow Jesus.  We need to proclaim with our lives that Jesus is our King.  


We need to pray for spiritual protection for our sons and daughters every day.  Satan wants nothing more than to keep them from following Christ.  He wants to convince them that compromising with sin is okay, especially if it’s “just a little bit”.  He lures them to just dip their feet in the water of darkness, just their feet and nothing more.  But we all know what happens.  If you’re “in”, you can’t be in two places at the same time.  When we dabble in darkness, we take our eyes off of Jesus and allow our heart and mind to put something else on the throne and then we’re walking in darkness.


Today, and every day, let’s pray that our sons and daughters will be IN Christ- that at all times, in all ways, in all places, they are found in Him and that darkness has no place in their lives.  Pray that their choices in friends, in entertainment, in places they go, things they take part in and what they read and listen to all support their pursuit of Jesus and their lives give evidence of living and walking in His light.


Pray without ceasing.




  1. G1722 - en - Strong's Greek Lexicon (kjv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g1722/kjv/tr/0-1/

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