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When the Weight of Your Thoughts Overwhelms You

We all know that feeling we get when things become too much.  Whether the grief is bubbling to the surface, and we can’t hold it in, or the weight of worry is burying us under layers of concern and we feel like we’re going to suffocate, we feel the weight.  When the dark thoughts creep in it’s hard to fight against the tide that seems to be too strong to turn.   The worry and anxiety do not just set the tone for our day, they can consume it.  So how do we fight it?  And how can we encourage those we love in helpful ways that will point them to Christ in the struggle to manage the overwhelm?

 

Psalm 94:19 gives us some guidance; check out these three translations:

“When anxiety was great within me, Your consolation brought me joy.” (NIV)

“In the multitude of my anxieties within me, Your comforts delight my soul” (NKJV)

“When the cares of my heart are many, Your consolations cheer my soul.” (ESV)

 

Did you see it?  WE can’t change anything…but God CAN and He WILL!!

The word anxiety (cares) comes from the Hebrew the word “sarapin” and means “disquieting thoughts.” 1  We’ve all experienced those, haven’t we?

Whether it’s worry over our kids, concern over a situation that feels out of control, fear of the unknown or grief over recent news, our hearts can only withstand so much. When we’re overwhelmed, our minds spin and build upon what is already present. It marinates. It festers.  It distracts us from God and steals our peace. It’s not how God wants us to live.

When our thoughts battle against one another or against our peace of mind and heart, that is what Hebrew calls “sarapin”.  The word “sarapin” stems from the root word “səipa” which means “ambivalence, division, or divided opinion.”2  And when we give space to those anxious thoughts, they can begin to consume us and distract our mind and heart from focusing on and trusting in God.

But God has a remedy for the confusion and division.  Notice…GOD has the remedy.  As much as we might try, we don’t have the power to will ourselves to be comforted.  But God does!

His consolation or comfort is present and available to us.  The Hebrew word “tanhumot” means “compassion or solace.”3  and that word comes from the word “naham” which means “to take a deep breath and be comforted.”4  

Remember when our children would cry, sob with ragged breaths and sniff back the tears?  We would gather them in, sweep the hair out of their eyes and gently rub their back or arm.  Oftentimes we would gently tell them, “just breathe” and we could see them begin to settle and grow calm. Friends, that’s what our Heavenly Father tells us, too, “Just breathe.  Rest in My strength.  Lean into Me and find comfort and solace.  My comforts can delight and cheer your very soul.”  Why is it that we resist?  Why do we think we have to settle our hearts in our own strength?

If we invite Him to, God settles and smooths our thoughts and our heart so that our troubled minds can be calmed and rest.  He longs to give us joy, delight, and cheer!  And what better way to demonstrate to others that we have the joy of the Lord?!

Today, take time to pray and pour out your heart to the Lord.  Tell Him all the things that are weighing you down.  He can bear the load- nothing is too much for Him.  Be honest about your fears and your anger, your hurt and confusion.  Lean into Him and let Him comfort you.  He can and He will.

Then, take time to read the Psalms, maybe listen to some praise and worship music. Just sit and be still. God has abundant comfort for our needs, we only need sit at His feet and ask.

 

Pray without ceasing.

 

1.      H8312 - śarʿapîm - Strong's Hebrew Lexicon (kjv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/h8312/kjv/wlc/0-1/

2.      H5587 - sᵊʿipâ - Strong's Hebrew Lexicon (kjv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/h5587/kjv/wlc/0-1/

3.      H8575 - tanḥûmôṯ - Strong's Hebrew Lexicon (kjv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/h8575/kjv/wlc/0-1/

4.      H5162 - nāḥam - Strong's Hebrew Lexicon (kjv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/h5162/kjv/wlc/0-1/

 

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Last Words

So many good books and movies are tied to the last words of a character.  Perhaps the words set the stage for the unfolding story or maybe they wrap up the entire plot and provide a moving and meaningful end.  Either way, last words seem to have the ability to elevate a situation or story and deepen its impact.


In Genesis 22, God asked Abraham to offer a sacrifice to show his love and obedience to his Lord.  But it wasn’t ‘just’ a sacrifice, it was the thing dearest to Abraham’s heart. The sacrifice God requested from Abraham was his son, Isaac. The son of the Promise.


Some time later God tested Abraham. He said to him, “Abraham!”

“Here I am,” he replied.

Then God said, “Take your son, your only son, whom you love—Isaac—and go to the region of Moriah. Sacrifice him there as a burnt offering on a mountain I will show you.” (Gen. 22:1-2)


Abraham didn’t question God, he obeyed. But I’m sure with every step toward that mountain, questions flew through his mind and his heart grew heavy in anticipation. As Abraham and Isaac, his only son, climbed Mt. Moriah, Isaac broke the silence and asked his father a question.


“Father?”

“Yes, my son?” Abraham replied.

“The fire and wood are here,” Isaac said, “but where is the lamb for the burnt offering?” (Gen. 22:7) 


At that moment, Abraham had to be aware that the words he spoke to his son might be the last words Isaac would hear from his father.  That’s a sobering moment if ever there was one, isn’t it?   


What if we were in his shoes, what would we say?  If we had one final opportunity to build into our sons and daughters, would we embrace the moment with the clarity of eternity?  Would we take that one final moment to point them to Christ?


Abraham’s response reflected the trust of one who was a friend of God, with the faith of one who believed in the sovereign provision of God,  knowing God could do the impossible and bring the dead to life.  



“Abraham answered, “God himself will provide the lamb for the burnt offering, my son.” And the two of them went on together.” (Gen. 22":8)




Abraham took the opportunity to point Isaac to the Lord.  Of all the things he could have said, he used that moment to speak life, hope and spiritual confidence into Isaac and to affirm the goodness, the Sovereignty and the perfect provision of God. Isaac was the child of promise, the one God would use to multiply Abraham’s descendants like the stars of the heavens and the sand of the sea. Abraham didn’t know how God would redeem this sacrifice, he just knew that He would. He knew God did not go back on His promises. Abraham spoke into Isaac with strong faith and a confidence in God, his Lord and his Friend.




When we have opportunity to speak into our sons and daughters, let’s not wait for that golden ‘last words’ moment to speak those things of eternal value.  Ponder, what is it we want them to know about Jesus?  What do they need to hold in their hearts and minds?  What will assure them of the hope that anchors the soul and the promise of eternity with Christ? We must have the conviction to speak words into our sons and daughters that affirm the  importance of:


  • Knowing God personally 

  • Trusting God completely

  • Following God unwaveringly 

  • Waiting on God expectantly

  • Serving Jesus joyfully

  • Submitting to the Lord obediently.




1 Peter 1 is a treasure trove of truths for the Christian life and the passage touches on each of these actions.  How can we speak into our kids? We need to read it, pray through it and then pray each word over our sons and daughters.  Even more effective is taking the step to commit it to memory and live by it so that our words and actions continually point our sons and daughters to Jesus and how He calls them to live.  


1 Peter 1:1-25

1 Peter, an apostle of Jesus Christ, To God’s elect, exiles scattered throughout the provinces of Pontus, Galatia, Cappadocia, Asia and Bithynia, 2 who have been chosen according to the foreknowledge of God the Father, through the sanctifying work of the Spirit, to be obedient to Jesus Christ and sprinkled with his blood: Grace and peace be yours in abundance.

Father, God, I pray that (name) would be your chosen and elect, called to salvation in Jesus, set apart for His work and for the inheritance You set in place for them. I ask that in Your foreknowledge, (name) would be chosen as one of Your own, a Christ-follower, sanctified by the work of the Holy Spirit and called to be obedient to Jesus, sprinkled by His blood and blessed abundantly with Your grace and peace.


3 Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ! In his great mercy he has given us new birth into a living hope through the resurrection of Jesus Christ from the dead, 4 and into an inheritance that can never perish, spoil or fade. This inheritance is kept in heaven for you, 5 who through faith are shielded by God’s power until the coming of the salvation that is ready to be revealed in the last time. 6 In all this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. 7 These have come so that the proven genuineness of your faith—of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire—may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed. 8 Though you have not seen him, you love him; and even though you do not see him now, you believe in him and are filled with an inexpressible and glorious joy, 9 for you are receiving the end result of your faith, the salvation of your souls.



I pray, Lord, that (name) would know You as God and Father. I pray that they would comprehend Your great mercy and clearly see how it is always enough to cover their sin and restore them to a right relationship with You. I pray that (name) would experience a living hope in Christ. One that would grow an eager expectation for the inheritance You’ve prepared for them, the eternal home that far outshines any blessing or beauty they might experience on this earth. I pray that You would shield (name) by Your power so that they would stand before You, worthy and righteous through Jesus Christ. I pray that (name)’s faith would be authentic, resilient and would withstand anything the enemy might throw at them. May (name)’s life and faith bring glory and honor to You. Strengthen them Lord, so that although they have not seen you, they continue to believe and follow after You and know the joy that You give to those who believe.


10 Concerning this salvation, the prophets, who spoke of the grace that was to come to you, searched intently and with the greatest care, 11 trying to find out the time and circumstances to which the Spirit of Christ in them was pointing when he predicted the sufferings of the Messiah and the glories that would follow. 12 It was revealed to them that they were not serving themselves but you, when they spoke of the things that have now been told you by those who have preached the gospel to you by the Holy Spirit sent from heaven. Even angels long to look into these things. 13 Therefore, with minds that are alert and fully sober, set your hope on the grace to be brought to you when Jesus Christ is revealed at his coming. 14 As obedient children, do not conform to the evil desires you had when you lived in ignorance. 15 But just as he who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do; 16 for it is written: “Be holy, because I am holy.”


Father, I pray that (name) would set their hope on the grace that You promised to bring when Jesus is revealed. Do not let them defer to any lesser god offering false hope and counterfeit rewards. I pray that their obedience to You would be unwavering. Continue to increase their knowledge of the Word, their wisdom in spiritual things and their commitment to Jesus, no matter what.


17 Since you call on a Father who judges each person’s work impartially, live out your time as foreigners here in reverent fear. 18 For you know that it was not with perishable things such as silver or gold that you were redeemed from the empty way of life handed down to you from your ancestors, 19 but with the precious blood of Christ, a lamb without blemish or defect. 20 He was chosen before the creation of the world, but was revealed in these last times for your sake. 21 Through him you believe in God, who raised him from the dead and glorified him, and so your faith and hope are in God.

22 Now that you have purified yourselves by obeying the truth so that you have sincere love for each other, love one another deeply, from the heart.  23 For you have been born again, not of perishable seed, but of imperishable, through the living and enduring word of God. 24 For, “All people are like grass, and all their glory is like the flowers of the field;
the grass withers and the flowers fall, 25  but the word of the Lord endures forever.” And this is the word that was preached to you.”


Lord, help them to obey You.

Soften their hearts to love others.

Strengthen their commitment to live in holiness

Sharpen their vision to see the promise of eternity

Deepen their resolve to follow Christ without compromise

In Jesus’ name, amen.



May we speak life-giving, soul-affirming words that will point our sons and daughters to the cross, to Jesus as their Lord and Savior, to the value of eternity in the Presence of Yahweh, the Great I Am.  Speak words of life.  Speak words that will always be remembered and valued.  May the words our sons and daughters recall from us, be the words that continually point them to Jesus.

Pray without ceasing.




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Hosanna! Lord, save us!

“Hosanna!”  It is the cry of Palm Sunday and the Triumphal Entry.

“Hosanna!” It’s an expression we likely associate with celebration and recognition of Jesus as King. 

“Hosanna!” We often see it as an exclamation of joy!  But there is a desperation and lostness associated with the plea.  The exclamation, “Hosanna!” comes from two Hebrew words “yasa” meaning to deliver or make wide and spacious (1) and the word “na” which means “I pray, now”. (2) So, Hosanna is actually a prayer that means, “Save, I pray!” or “Lord, save us!” .(3)


The people of Jerusalem cried out to Jesus to be their King and Savior, but not in a spiritual way, they were crying out for political salvation from Rome.  Jesus wept because in their desperation, crying out for salvation, the people still did not see Who Jesus was or what He came to do.  They missed the Son of God. They were as lost and desperate as ever.

As parents, we too understand crying out in desperation.  The desperation of a parent praying for their child is unmatched.  We know what it is to cry out when we are so burdened and in distress over where our sons and daughters are headed, what they are choosing to do and who they choose to follow.  We desperately want them to turn to the Lord, recognize Him as God and Savior, but we have no power to change their heart and capture their mind. 

Yet, God the Father knows that desperation- He gave His son to save a world that didn’t recognize Him and, instead, crucified Him.  He knows the deep loss of loving a Son so dearly, giving the most precious thing He had to give for the sake of others whom He loved, but were not choosing to love Him.  Sometimes the desperation we feel is accompanied by a son or daughter who, in their rebellion, choose to not love us or respect our wisdom or do what is right.  Hosanna!  Lord save us!



We may describe our situation with our son or daughter as being ‘in dire straights’.  But what does that mean? “To be in dire straits means to be in desperate trouble or impending danger. Dire means extremely serious. Straits are narrow passages of water which connect two larger bodies of water, navigating them may often become perilous. In the mid-sixteenth century, straits came to mean any difficult situation, one that carries a high degree of trouble.” (4)  God understands dire straights, and friends, sometimes God allows it. But God is so good to remind us that He sees.  He is ready to save.  




Isaiah 43:1-3a “But now, this is what the LORD says— he who created you, Jacob, he who formed you, Israel: “Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine.  When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and when you pass through the rivers, they will not sweep over you. When you walk through the fire, you will not be burned; the flames will not set you ablaze.  For I am the LORD your God, the Holy One of Israel, your Savior;” 

God doesn’t tell us that He will keep us from the flood or fire- but He promises He will protect us through it.  The Creator has full control over all of Creation.  He builds our faith by walking with us through the dire straights and holding back the waters so that we’re not overcome.  We may walk those narrow passages/times in life where there is barely room to breathe, when we feel pressed on every side, but He is there.  Hosanna!  Lord save us!


Psalm 32:6 Therefore let all the faithful pray to you while you may be found; surely the rising of the mighty waters will not reach them.

Today, we might find ourselves praying Psalm 119:43a  “Trouble and distress have come upon me,” lamenting to God our situation and how dire and desperate it seems.



The Hebrew word for trouble is “sar” which means “narrow, tight, afflicted, anguished, distressed. (5)  And that word ‘sar’ comes from the root word ‘sarar’ which means “to cramp, literally or figuratively,—adversary, (be in) afflict(-ion), beseige, bind (up), (be in, bring) distress, enemy, narrower, oppress, pangs, shut up, be in a strait (trouble), vex.” (6) Distress is the Hebrew word “masoq” and it means anguish, straightness, striaits, (dire straits). (7)  This word comes from the root ‘suq’ which means “to constrain, bring into straits, press upon.” (8)




God knows.  He understands.  He uses words in the original language that intricately describe how we might feel when pressed on every side and overwhelmed with situations out of our control. These words very clearly give us a picture of just how difficult and desperate the situations are that believers may encounter.  But, those situations are not beyond His control- for whatever reason He allows us to experience trouble and distress- anguish and dire straits.  But He doesn’t leave us there and He doesn’t abandon us.  Keep going!  Read further! Psalm 119:143 resolves and gives hope. It ends with “but Your commands give me delight.”  Take a breath.  There is delight to be enjoyed!  God sees and He rescues.  Trust Him.  Hosanna!  Lord save us!




Might we, today, cry out “Hosanna!”  “Lord save us!  Lord save my child!”?  




Step to the side of the pathway and watch your Savior.  Know His Presence.  Reach out for His hand and pray “Hosanna! Lord save us!”  Pour your heart out to your King and  your God for rescue and deliverance from whatever dire straight you find yourself or your son or daughter.   He sees and knows.  He hears you.  He will rejoice over you with singing and provide a way of escape.  Hosanna! Lord, save us!




Pray without ceasing.





  1. H3467 - yāšaʿ - Strong's Hebrew Lexicon (niv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/h3467/niv/wlc/0-1/

  2. H3467 - yāšaʿ - Strong's Hebrew Lexicon (niv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/h3467/niv/wlc/0-1/

  3. G5614 - hōsanna - Strong's Greek Lexicon (niv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g5614/niv/mgnt/0-1/

  4. https://grammarist.com/phrase/dire-straits/#:~:text=Dire%20means%20extremely%20serious.,a%20high%20degree%20of%20trouble

  5. H6862 - ṣar - Strong's Hebrew Lexicon (niv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/h6862/niv/wlc/0-1/

  6. H6887 - ṣārar - Strong's Hebrew Lexicon (niv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/h6887/niv/wlc/0-1/

  7. H4689 - māṣôq - Strong's Hebrew Lexicon (niv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/h4689/niv/wlc/0-1/

  8. H6693 - ṣûq - Strong's Hebrew Lexicon (nkjv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/h6693/nkjv/wlc/0-1/

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Like a Thief in the Night

1 Thessalonians 5:2-4  “for you know very well that the day of the Lord will come like a thief in the night.  While people are saying, “Peace and safety,” destruction will come on them suddenly, as labor pains on a pregnant woman and they will not escape.  But you brothers and sisters, are not in darkness so that this day should surprise you like a thief.”


We spend much time praying over our sons and daughters that they would have a heart for Jesus, an understanding of Scripture and would pursue holy living.  But how often do we stop and pray that they would have an eye on the future?  Sometimes it seems so far off that, although we know Jesus’ return could happen at any moment, we too easily find ourselves lulled into a mindset of ‘someday’ vs. ‘imminent’, “even today”. It should change how we live.  It should determine our focus.  It is the important thing by which we should prioritize our days, our choices, our lives. Yet, too often, it’s buried in the back of our minds as something that ‘might’ happen in our lifetime, but is probably unlikely because look how much time has gone by already? It’s been two thousand years. As days go on the imminence seems to lose its urgency, and isn’t that what Satan hopes will happen in the believer’s heart and mind?  The Lord tells us we need to be aware and watching.


Look at current events- what do you see?  Are things becoming more peaceful?  Is crime becoming less prevalent?  Are people caring for one another in ways that bring harmony and show kindness?  Oh, governments and leaders will proclaim peace and tell us alliances are certain to assure us of the same, but Scripture tells us that’s the deception of the enemy.  Satan is the Prince of the power of the air.  This is his domain.  He breeds chaos and pain.  Matthew 24:7 says, “Nation will rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom. There will be famines and earthquakes in various places.”  Watch what is happening and don’t be unaware.


Sin is rampant, this world is in deep decay and Jesus is the only remedy that will change anything.  Yet, scripture tells us at some point, He will return and catch up those who confess His name and believe in their heart that Jesus is Lord.  We call it the rapture.  Some will say, “well, that word isn’t even in scripture!”.  Hmmm.  No, the English word is not in scripture.  But the Bible wasn’t written in English.  If you dig a little deeper you’ll see something very interesting in 1 Thessalonians 4:17, “After that, we who are still alive and are left will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air. And so we will be with the Lord forever.”  Those words ‘caught up’ is the word ‘harpazo’ which means “to seize, catch (away, up), pluck, pull, take (by force).” (1) It comes from the word ‘haireo’ which means “to take for oneself, i.e. to prefer, choose.” (2)


This ‘catching up’ of believers won’t come with a warning or a ‘heads up!’.  That’s already been given in Thessalonians.  We are told to live ready.  Much like a special forces military officer lives always ready to go at a moment’s notice.  Their ‘go bag’ is packed and ready so that when they get the call, they’re on their way immediately.  When we get the call from Jesus, we’ll be out- in a moment, caught up and pulled out.  It will be that quick.  It will be unexpected.  People will be caught unaware.


Matthew 24:36-44 says, ““But about that day or hour no one knows, not even the angels in heaven, nor the Son, but only the Father. As it was in the days of Noah, so it will be at the coming of the Son of Man.  For in the days before the flood, people were eating and drinking, marrying and giving in marriage, up to the day Noah entered the ark;  and they knew nothing about what would happen until the flood came and took them all away. That is how it will be at the coming of the Son of Man.  Two men will be in the field; one will be taken and the other left.  Two women will be grinding with a hand mill; one will be taken and the other left. “Therefore keep watch, because you do not know on what day your Lord will come. But understand this: If the owner of the house had known at what time of night the thief was coming, he would have kept watch and would not have let his house be broken into. So you also must be ready, because the Son of Man will come at an hour when you do not expect him.”


Jesus is coming back.  Are we keeping watch? Do we teach and encourage our sons and daughters to be alert and aware?  We need to pray that our sons and daughters live in the light of Jesus return, always watching, always ready, because this world is not where we are meant to be.  This is not our home, so we shouldn’t get too comfortable.  Pray that our sons and daughters would have a burden to share the hope that they have in Christ with those who are spiritually dying.  Pray that they are excited to see His return because that will be the moment their faith becomes sight!  Can you imagine?  What an amazing, breath-taking moment that will be!  Even so, come quickly Lord Jesus!


“Heavenly Father, You assure us that Jesus will return for us.  You also remind us in Your Word that the day and the hour is unknown to all but You.  It could happen at any moment.  But I fear we lose our focus too easily and we become comfortable here.  So many years believers have been waiting, and we may wait even more.  But that waiting is Your kindness toward those who have yet to believe (2 Peter 3:9).  I pray that You would give us a fresh excitement and anticipation for Jesus’ return.  Help us always to be watching with hope, waiting while being busy for Your kingdom, eager to see Jesus but burdened for those who don’t yet know Him.  Lord, I pray for (name) today.  Don’t let them live unaware.  Remind them of the promises in Scripture that tell us this is not our home.  Stir them to action and cause them to think about what they choose to say and do- would it please Jesus if He returned to find them doing it?  Lord, affirm to us, even today, that You are working and that Jesus return is near.  Don’t let us grow dull.  Don’t allow us to become desensitized to the urgency.  Lord, we long for that moment when our faith will become sight- I pray that (name) would long for that too!  Lord Jesus, come quickly!”


Pray without ceasing.


Do you  know Jesus as your  personal Lord and Savior or are you unsure of what you believe?  Do you know where you will spend eternity or are you just hoping for the best?

If you have questions or would like to know more, please reach out!  I would be happy to share the hope you can find in Jesus and point you to what He says in Scripture that gives confidence in His plan for our lives.




  1. G726 - harpazō - Strong's Greek Lexicon (niv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g726/niv/mgnt/0-1/

  2. G138 - haireō - Strong's Greek Lexicon (niv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g138/niv/mgnt/0-1/

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A Call to Parents: Encouraging Our Sons & Daughters

“For you know that we dealt with each of you as a father deals with his own children, encouraging, comforting and urging you to live lives worthy of God, who calls you into his kingdom and glory.” 1 Thessalonians 2:11-12



We spend much time here at Join the PAC Prayer focusing on praying for our sons and daughters, but today we’re going to take a look at what God calls us to do as parents.  What are we called to do? How can we do it well?


Paul wrote to the Thessalonians to encourage them in their faith. Throughout the first and second chapters, Paul urged them to remain true and faithful.  He instructed them on how they should live and commended them for what they did well.  In chapter two, he explained his ministry motives along with those of Silas and Timothy and the nature of their instruction.   Then he gave the statement in verses 11-12 and it’s here we need to pause and take time to ponder because Paul explained three key actions that exemplify how a father (a parent) should deal with his children,   “For you know that we dealt with each of you as a father deals with his own children, encouraging, comforting and urging you to live lives worthy of God, who calls you into his kingdom and glory.” 

Let’s dig deep and get a better understanding of what God encourages us to do as parents.


Encouraging: Parakaleo



The first thing Paul mentioned is that he, Silas and Timothy were encouraging the believers.  The Greek word for encouraging is parakaleo.  It means to call near or call to one’s side; to exhort, console and comfort; to strengthen and instruct; it means to call in a loud voice; it’s not a silent, behind-the-scenes cheering on (1). 



There is more to encouraging our sons and daughters  than just saying “Good job! I knew you could do it!”  The word ‘parakaleo’ comes from two root words, ‘para’, meaning beside or near, having proximity to (2) and ‘kaleo’ which means to call by name (3).  So when we’re encouraging our sons and daughters, we need to call them near, call them by name, take time to be present and to teach and comfort them.  We must be focused on them, and strengthen them in those things that are uniquely their own needs- it’s not a one-size-fits-all approach.  It’s personal.  It requires our presence and our mindfulness towards them so that we’re focused and our encouragement stems from knowledge of the individual son or daughter and knowledge from Scripture.  



Like a paramedic is a medical professional who comes near to the patient, calls them by name and tends to their needs, our encouragement must be parakaleo, near our sons and daughters, calling them by name and meeting their needs to encourage them to walk faithfully, understand God’s word accurately and remain true to their faith and commitment to God.




Comforting: Paramytheomai



The next thing Paul mentions is comfort.  The Greek word for the act of comforting is paramytheomai, which means “to speak to, address one, whether by way of admonition and incentive, or to calm and console” (4).  It’s another form of encouragement.  Note the prefix ‘para’ is once again a part of the word.  It requires coming alongside of another to accomplish the  purpose at hand. Paramytheomai means we need to be present and choose to be near, whether in person or, if that’s not possible, in communication and prayer.  It’s an active role and not just that of an observer.  The other portion of the word, ‘mytheomai’ means to speak, tell a story, a narrative.  Often this word was applied to the sharing of genealogies in Biblical times.  Consider what is your family’s story and how your sons and daughters could learn from it.  Some questions to consider:


What is the heritage that undergirds your family?  

What stories of faith are held forth?  

What mistakes were made that should not be repeated?  

Maybe the heritage of faith began with you … How did you come to know Jesus and begin a personal relationship with Him?

How can your sons and daughters carry on the Godly legacy?  

How can you comfort them with lessons from the past and encourage them to be true to God into the future?



Comfort and encouragement can come through the stories of others and out of our own experiences.  Those stories should be carried and shared by parents to their children to stand as encouragement and be cautionary as well.



Urging: Martyomai

Finally, Paul urged the Thessalonians to live a life worthy of God.  The word used for urging is ‘martyomai’, which means “to be a witness, testify, charge or give evidence, bear record.” (5)  Yes, it is related to the word ‘martyr’, describing those who gave their life for their faith.  They bore witness and held fast to the testimony of Christ, even to the end.  Paul urged, testified and bore witness to the Thessalonians in an  effort to encourage them and teach them to hold fast to their faith.




The root word is martys means “one who is mindful, obeys”. (6)  It’s not only what Paul wanted the Thessalonians to do, but it was what he held fast to as he lived out his testimony before them.  And it’s what we need to do as parents.  We need to demonstrate obedience to God and be mindful of what He calls us to do so that our words and actions testify faithfulness to Him to our sons and daughters.




The encouragement, the comfort and the urging are all directed toward helping our sons and daughters live wisely and follow Christ faithfully, or as the King James Version says, “that ye would walk worthy of God” who calls them into His kingdom.  Isn’t that one of our most fervent prayers for our sons and daughters?  We want them to live a life that acts as an example to others that we are Kingdom bound, sons and daughters of the Most High, His heirs and dearly loved children.




But what does it mean to “walk worthy of God”?  The word for walk in Greek is peripateo  and it means “to occupy oneself, make progress and follow; to make one’s way and make use of opportunities.” (7)  It’s more than just heading in a direction.  It’s being cognizant of where one is going, making use of opportunities along the way and always being mindful of whom you are following and the direction in which you are headed.  The prefix, peri, comes from a root word, peran, which means, “beyond, on the other side.” (8) It’s directional and locational.  It indicates that this walk is more than just a stroll.  It’s purposeful.  It has a specific destination.  It requires mindful participation.  




But here’s the powerful part: the remainder of the word, pateo, has a profound meaning.  Let’s look at the original wording from Strong’s Concordance.  Pateo means, “to advance by setting foot upon, tread upon; to encounter successfully the greatest perils from the machinations and persecutions with which Satan would fain thwart the preaching of the gospel.”(9)  Wow!!  When we pray for our sons and daughters to walk worthy of God, we’re praying that they will encounter successfully the greatest perils, deceptions, schemes of Satan and will overcome!  We pray that they will live out and speak the gospel in ways that will defeat Satan and his demons and will overcome the ‘dangers, toils and snares’ of this life because they’re directionally moving toward the ‘other side’- the Kingdom of God…and Satan will do anything and everything to keep them from it.




These two verses are so rich and so powerful!!  It would be beneficial for us to meditate on these Scriptures this week as we pray for our sons and daughters.  He who is in us is greater than he who is in the world.  We have the power of the Eternal God within reach.  He hears the cry of His children and He does not let it go unanswered.  Take time today to pray for encouragement, for comfort and to urge this next generation to live victoriously.  Why not write these verses down and carry them with you this week, memorize them and meditate on them, they are  powerful directives and timeless truths and God can and will use them mightily.





Pray without ceasing.  



  1.  G3870 - parakaleō - Strong's Greek Lexicon (niv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g3870/niv/mgnt/0-1/

  2. G3844 - para - Strong's Greek Lexicon (niv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g3844/niv/mgnt/0-1/

  3. G2564 - kaleō - Strong's Greek Lexicon (niv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g2564/niv/mgnt/0-1/

  4. G3888 - paramytheomai - Strong's Greek Lexicon (niv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g3888/niv/mgnt/0-1/

  5. G3143 - martyromai - Strong's Greek Lexicon (niv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g3143/niv/mgnt/0-1/ 

  6. G3144 - martys - Strong's Greek Lexicon (niv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g3144/niv/mgnt/0-1/ 

  7. G4043 - peripateō - Strong's Greek Lexicon (kjv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g4043/kjv/tr/0-1/

  8. G4012 - peri - Strong's Greek Lexicon (kjv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g4012/kjv/tr/0-1/ 

  9. G3961 - pateō - Strong's Greek Lexicon (kjv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g3961/kjv/tr/0-1/



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Psalm 145:13-16

13 Your kingdom is an everlasting kingdom,  and your dominion endures through all generations.  The Lord is faithful to all his promises  and loving toward all he has made.

Abba Father, how encouraging it is to know and be confident that the God we love and follow is eternal?!  Lord, there is nothing that can shake your Kingdom- that is so reassuring.  When our world seems to unravel around us, we can know without a doubt that Your Kingdom is secure and because of that, our future is secure.  I pray that You would encourage (name) today with that truth.  Give them confidence to know that nothing will ever push You from the Throne.  No King will ever topple Your kingdom and no authority will ever exceed Your power and dominion.  You are faithful to all of Your promises- we can be sure You will bring each one to pass..  Remind us of that today, Lord.  Remind us of Your love.  I pray that (name) would rest secure in Who You are and in how You love them.


14 The Lord upholds all those who fall  and lifts up all who are bowed down.

Thank You, Father, that you are strong enough to hold us when we falter and fall.  You won’t let us go.  You see our struggle and our weakness.  You see when we stumble and when we fall.  You are there beside us when life is too hard and You reach down and lift us up.  We can’t do it ourselves and that’s why You are God and we are not.  I pray that (name) would see Your strength, protection and Your closeness today.  Let there be no shadow of turning.  Lord, grab their attention and help them to see that You ARE there and You know all that they face, even if they hold it close to their heart without telling anyone.  Lord, You see the darkness and the struggle and depression.  You see the sin, the pride, the addiction.  And You are strong enough to battle it all and lift us up, clean us off and set us back on our feet.  (Name) needs to believe it, Lord.  Work in their heart today.  Let them know YOU are the rescue they need and the only One who is strong enough to win the battle, overcome the obstacle and lift the burden.  Work in (name)’s heart today.  Uphold them.  Lift them.  Love them, Lord.


15 The eyes of all look to you, and you give them their food at the proper time.


I pray that (name) would look to You and no other.  Help them to see that You, and only You, are the provider of peace, the remedy to the sick heart and broken mind, the lifter of the fallen and the healer of the broken.  Remind them that Your timing is perfect.  You are never early and never too late.  Your clock runs differently than ours and although we’re impatient and have a sense of urgency, Your perfect will always is best.  Help us to submit to that.  Help us to wait, Lord.  Psalm 27:14 tells us to “wait for the LORD; be strong and take heart and wait for the LORD.”  So, instead of growing more impatient and losing our focus and our temper, help us to be strong and take heart while we wait for Your proper time.  You will not fail us, Lord!


16 You open your hand and satisfy the desires of every living thing.


Psalm 37:4 tells us that if we delight ourselves in the Lord, that You will give us the desires of our heart.  If we delight ourselves in You, our desire will be to know You more, to obey You, to be like Jesus and  honor You with our lives.  I pray that today that (name) would delight themselves in You and that  You would open Your hand and satisfy those desires.  Grow (name) into a man/woman after Your own heart.  May their desires please You and when You open Your hand, spiritual blessings pour out on (name) and fill them to overflowing.  I pray this in Jesus’ name, amen.

Pray without ceasing


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Grace and Peace

“Grace and peace to you from God our Father

and the Lord Jesus Christ.”

(1 Corinthians 1:3; 2 Corinthians 1:2; Galatians 1:3; Ephesians 1:2; Philippians 1:2; Colossians 1:2; 1 Thessalonians 1:1; 2 Thessalonians 1:2; 1 Timothy 1:2; 2 Timothy 1:2; Titus 1:4; Philemon 1:3)


Grace and peace.  Charis and eirene.  Two Greek words that have a lot of impact in the New Testament.  Two words that, at face value, seem pretty simple and easily understood.  Yet, we’re going to see when we really dig into them, there is significant spiritual depth to each and, when spoken together, they become a powerful blessing that we’ll want to pray over our sons and daughters daily.


The greeting and prayer of grace and peace were so important that the Apostle Paul began most of his letters with this blessing (note all of the references above!)  What is it that Paul wanted to draw his readers’ attention to before anything else?  What is it he wanted them to understand?


First the word grace, or “Charis” in the Greek, is a word that both ‘is’ and ‘does’.   It has ‘presence’ and ‘performance’  It represents more than what a five letter word might imply.  The word ‘grace’ means “that which affords joy, pleasure, delight, sweetness, charm, loveliness: grace of speech” 1



Think about that for a moment.  The presence of grace in our life is what affords us joy, pleasure, delight, sweetness, charm and loveliness.  Without grace we would be fairly miserable, no?  Friends, if we just stopped here and prayed this over our sons and daughters we would have a powerful day of prayer.  But there’s more!


Grace performs powerfully in us because it is what God employs to draw us to salvation and to transform our life to become like Jesus.  Grace is “the merciful kindness by which God, exerting His holy influence upon souls, grace turns them to Christ, keeps, strengthens, increases them in Christian faith, knowledge, affection, and kindles them to the exercise of Christian virtues.” 1



Grace.  It’s a lot to unpack, isn’t it?  So much richness right there and surely something we should ponder daily.  Now it makes a bit more sense as to why Paul would begin each letter with blessings of Grace and Peace to all of the believers.  But grace always comes first.  Why?  Because without God’s grace, one can never know and understand God’s peace.  


And what is peace?  The Greek word is ‘eirene’ and it means “the tranquil state of a soul assured of its salvation through Christ, and so fearing nothing from God and content with its earthly lot.” 2


Another ‘wow’ moment, eh?  When we’ve experienced God’s powerful grace in salvation and edification, why would we fear?  What is there to fear? God has sovereignty over it all and we are His child! We can rest secure, knowing that we have eternal security in Christ, we have a promised inheritance and the gift of the Holy Spirit to speak into our lives, guide our steps and guard our hearts.  Sin will have no power over us and death is swallowed in victory.  We are chosen and dearly loved, kept by the Father.


Grace and peace.  More than just two words.  More than 10 simple letters. Grace and peace are powerful messages of salvation, hope and assurance.  Today, let’s pray boldly that our sons and daughters would know God’s grace and peace in abundant ways.


“Father, may Your great grace bring a convicting recognition of the magnitude of our sin and of the even greater power of Your mercy toward us.  May it drive us to deep repentance and a full restoration of fellowship with You, Lord, and with others.  May Your grace be ever before us, reminding us of Your rich forgiveness and of Your calling on our lives (Eph. 1:4-6)  May Your ever-present grace fill us and assure us that we are Your own, bought with a price and redeemed for a purpose, planned long before You ever breathed life into us (Eph 2:10). Let your grace in our lives be evident to others and draw them, too, to so great a salvation (2 Cor. 4:15, Eph. 1:7).”


“Lord, as we rest in and are consumed by Your grace, fill us with Your peace- an assured confidence that our life and eternity are hidden and secure in Jesus (Col. 3:3).  You are my salvation and stronghold- I have nothing to fear (Ps. 27:1)  Help me to always present my requests to You, thankful that I can call upon You for anything, and assured that the peace You give is abundant and perfectly measured and able to surpass anything in this world or in any realm beyond.”


“Father, without Your grace, we would not know Your peace.  I pray that (name) would know and embrace both Your grace and peace.  Help (name) to walk faithfully because they are sanctified and called to be holy (1 Cor. 1:2).  Keep (name) strong to the end so they will be blameless on the day of our Lord Jesus Christ (1 Cor. 1:8).  In Jesus’ name I pray, amen.”


Take some time this week to meditate on the truths of grace and peace. Don’t just make it a short visit, but plan an extended stay. Pray on the richness of these words and all they represent for the believer and the hope we have. Make this week a week of prayer for grace and peace in the lives of those you love.

Pray without ceasing.



  1.  G5485 - charis - Strong's Greek Lexicon (niv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g5485/niv/mgnt/0-1/

  2. G1515 - eirēnē - Strong's Greek Lexicon (niv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g1515/niv/mgnt/0-1/

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Acid Tongue

Ephesians 4:29 “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen.”


Acid burns.  It corrodes.  It’s sour.  Those qualities can describe our words,  too.  They hit hard, they burn and fester. Words can eat away at our heart and mind leaving them raw, exposed and hurting. Words can set our spirit on edge and cause damage that is not easily repaired.


Sometimes we may find ourselves using our words to try and motivate certain responses or actions - what we think our sons and daughters should do or be.  But that can quickly turn into using words as a weapon to accomplish our own agenda.  Our words can become passive-aggressive and just plain nasty.  Maybe we don’t intend them to be so; sometimes we don’t realize the weight and sharpness of our words.  But we should.


James 3:5-10 says, “Likewise, the tongue is a small part of the body, but it makes great boasts. Consider what a great forest is set on fire by a small spark. The tongue also is a fire, a world of evil among the parts of the body. It corrupts the whole body, sets the whole course of one’s life on fire, and is itself set on fire by hell.  All kinds of animals, birds, reptiles and sea creatures are being tamed and have been tamed by mankind,  but no human being can tame the tongue. It is a restless evil, full of deadly poison.  With the tongue we praise our Lord and Father, and with it we curse human beings, who have been made in God’s likeness.  Out of the same mouth come praise and cursing. My brothers and sisters, this should not be.”


Our words can pull others close, or push them away.  They can speak truth in love and be a balm to a  hurting heart.  Or our words can be caustic, burning as they hit and leaving scars as they sink deeply.  Our mantra should not be “well, the truth hurts”.  It should be “how can I speak like Jesus?”  You see, Jesus didn’t look for opportunities to tear others down, to speak ‘truth that hurts’ or to use passive-aggressive means to win souls.  He didn’t use His words to puff himself up or show himself ‘better than’. He didn’t use words to shame or humiliate.   No, Jesus was compassionate.  He was thoughtful.  


Yes, Jesus spoke truth- He IS the Truth.  But he spoke it in such a way that the ‘other’ was respected.  He spoke with words that intrigued the listener and supported the Holy Spirit’s work in them.  Even those caught in sin were spoken to in love, not spite or arrogance (that was the Pharisees’ approach).  The woman in John 8, caught in sin, wasn’t given a whole sermon on her depravity.  She wasn’t paraded out as an example to others and shamed for her actions.  Her missteps were not listed out for her and all others to hear.  She wasn’t humiliated because of her error, she was shown compassion, because Jesus loved her and He wanted His words to reflect His love and compassion.


Proverbs 12:18 “There is one whose rash words are like sword thrusts, but the tongue of the wise brings healing.”  


Let’s not allow our words to be dictated by which day of the week it is….- speaking sweetly on Sunday when we’re at church and then turning the switch to acid words when we get in the car and set our Bible aside.  Let’s stop and think, “will my response, my words, my questions and my encouragements make others love Jesus more…or will they begin to corrode the heart and spirit of the listener?”


The Lord calls us to love Him with all of our heart, our soul, our mind and our strength (Luke 10:27). If all of us is consumed with Him, then our words will be a by-product of that relationship. We’ll speak words of truth and life because that’s where our heart, soul, mind and strength are grounded . If our words don’t reflect that, it’s an indication that our focus might need some readjusting.


Friends, Jesus doesn’t need us to be another's ‘Holy Spirit’.  He’s got that covered.  He needs us to speak truth in love.  Yes, friends, it’s time to watch our words.  Let’s put aside the acid tongue and speak to one another, to our sons and daughters, to those who may be within earshot, with an agape vocabulary: one that shows affection, goodwill, benevolence and love.  “Gracious words are a honeycomb, sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.”  Proverbs 16:24.


Today, let’s pray that we speak in ways that reflect Christ.  Pray that our sons and daughters would as well.  Pray that the Holy Spirit would put a guard on our tongues and prick our hearts when we begin to pour acid instead of honey.  Let’s impact our world with the Love of Christ, not the sting and stench of the old nature.


“Father, You are the Author of Truth and the giver of good.  If we are your children, we should reflect Your nature- help us to do that.  I pray that when I speak, it would be motivated by love and not my own agenda.  Lord, I so want my sons and daughters to follow after You.  But sometimes my words don’t encourage them and the example I set is not always one that reflect You.  Change me, Lord.  Make me more like Jesus.  Let the words I speak build others up- even if they’re just overhearing, let them be blessed because they hear Jesus in the way and words that I speak.  I pray for (name) today.  Let the words of their mouth and the meditation of their heart be pleasing in Your sight, Lord (Ps. 19:14)  Lord, help us to respond, not react, when we choose to speak.  Let our words be like honey, not like acid.  Lord, I love You and I want to represent You well.  Please work in me, work in my family, let our words point others to the cross, not to a wake of wreckage that we leave behind due to our acid tongues. Let us be known for the sweetness of our words, not an acid tongue. “Set a guard, O LORD, over my mouth: keep watch over the door of my lips.” (Ps 141:3”  In Jesus’ name I pray, Amen.”

Pray without ceasing, friends!

G26 - agapē - Strong's Greek Lexicon (kjv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g26/kjv/tr/0-1/



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May God Encourage You

Although we tend to spend time praying and pleading over the hard things, we can’t forget the value and benefit of some good, solid encouragement.  Both first and second Thessalonians offer benedictions of blessing and encouragement and, although brief, they’re packed with rich truth that can encourage our hearts!

Pray this today, putting the name of your children in wherever it says ‘you’….and then, why not text it to your son or daughter?  What a way to brighten their day!

1 Thessalonians 5:23-24

May God himself, the God of peace, sanctify you through and through. May your whole spirit, soul and body be kept blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ. The one who calls you is faithful, and he will do it.”


2 Thessalonians 2:16-17

“May our Lord Jesus Christ himself and God our Father, who loved us and by his grace gave us eternal encouragement and good hope, encourage your hearts and strengthen you in every good deed and word.”


Pray without ceasing.


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Encouraging Faithfulness

Acts 11:23 (19-24)  “Now those who had been scattered by the persecution that broke out when Stephen was killed traveled as far as Phoenicia, Cyprus and Antioch, spreading the word only among Jews. Some of them, however, men from Cyprus and Cyrene, went to Antioch and began to speak to Greeks also, telling them the good news about the Lord Jesus. The Lord’s hand was with them, and a great number of people believed and turned to the Lord.

News of this reached the church in Jerusalem, and they sent Barnabas to Antioch. When he arrived and saw what the grace of God had done, he was glad and encouraged them all to remain true to the Lord with all their hearts. He was a good man, full of the Holy Spirit and faith, and a great number of people were brought to the Lord.”

Faithfulness to the gospel demonstrates God’s presence in our lives.  Notice, in Acts, the persecution of the church brought a fervent sharing of the gospel and a boldness to speak about Christ to those who desperately needed to hear the good news.  The gospel of Jesus Christ is life-changing!  

Antioch was a city in ancient Syria.  Today,  it’s now a part of south central Turkey, just east of Aleppo, Syria.  When Barnabas arrived in Antioch, the Presence of God was evident among the people there.  He “saw what the grace of God had done”.

If we are praying for faithfulness for our sons and daughters, we need to pray that God’s Presence is evident in their lives.  Christianity can’t just be a label, it needs to define us and everything we say and do give evidence that we are Christ-followers.  Can others see evidence of the grace of God in our lives?  

Barnabas was so moved that he “encouraged them all to remain true to the Lord with all their hearts”  We need to be the Barnabas to our sons and daughters, friends!!  When he “encouraged’ them. Strong’s Concordance (1) defines “encourage”  as :admonish, exhort, beseech, console, comfort, strengthen and teach.  Friends, that’s a lot of verbs right there!!  If we want to encourage faithfulness, friends, we need to give our sons and daughters more than an ‘atta boy!’.  

Yes, we’re praying for their faithfulness, but let’s dig in and be intentional!!  The days are becoming darker- we can’t ignore it.  Will our sons and daughters cling to the faithfulness needed to preserve their faith?  Will they be persuaded, beyond a doubt, that Jesus is their Lord and Savior?  Oh, friends, we need to encourage their faithfulness, admonish them to be strong in the Lord and in the power of His might (Eph. 6:10), exhort them to walk in the light of His presence (Ps. 89:15), beseech them to love the Lord their God (Mt 22:37) console them with the truth that God provides mercy and grace in time of need (Heb. 4:16), comfort them with the reminder that God is a God of comfort and compassion in our troubles, our comfort abounds in Christ (2 Cor. 1:3-5), remind them that they will be strengthened with all power according to his glorious might so that they may have great endurance and patience, (Col. 1:11) and pray that the cry of their heart is Psalm 119:33, “Teach me, Lord, the way of your decrees, that I may follow it to the end”  That, friends, is praying for faithfulness for our sons and daughters.

Today, we need to pray through all of the aspects of encouraging faithfulness in our sons and daughters, and then let’s write a note for ourselves to remind us of the many ways we can encourage them. Faithfulness is a long, steady commitment, let’s bear with them in prayer!


Pray without ceasing.


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Sit on the Rock

Exodus 17:10-13 “So Joshua fought the Amalekites as Moses had ordered, and Moses, Aaron and Hur went to the top of the hill.  As long as Moses held up his hands, the Israelites were winning, but whenever he lowered his hands, the Amalekites were winning.  When Moses’ hands grew tired, they took a stone and put it under him and he sat on it. Aaron and Hur held his hands up—one on one side, one on the other—so that his hands remained steady till sunset.  So Joshua overcame the Amalekite army with the sword.”

Even though our sons and daughters are young, it doesn't mean they don’t grow weary.  Physical weariness can happen to anyone.  Young to old all grow weary.  The young ones fall asleep anywhere- it’s cute and everyone understands.  Yet, as we grow older, there is less tolerance for being tired, so we hide it.  But it shows itself in other ways.  You can see weariness in someone’s eyes.  Their posture may become bent, their gait slows and their energy level loses its ‘sparkle’.  Physical weariness isn’t difficult to spot.  Spiritual weariness is more subtle and often better hidden.   But it happens..to young and old alike.  We need to be aware.  And we need to be ready to offer support.

When God instructed Moses to hold his arms in the air to ensure Israel’s victory, it must have been invigorating...for the first few minutes.  But as the minutes dragged into hours, Moses struggled.  The physical drain was immense, but the spiritual burden was just as great.  Israel’s success was dependent on Moses' obedience.  If he let his arms fall, Israel would fall as well.

So, rather than berate him for getting weary or simply using words to urge him onward, Moses’ friends came alongside him, helped him sit down and, while he rested on a rock, they held up his arms for him.  They carried the weight while he rested...on the rock.

There is a lot of spiritual symbolism in that, and a message we can carry to encourage our sons, daughters, friends and others.  Rather than simply share ‘words’ or ‘kind thoughts’, let’s encourage those who are weary by offering them a seat on the Rock.  Take them to Jesus in prayer and encouragement.  And don’t just ‘drop them there’ but stand with them, hold them up, be the strength they need to remain until the battle is won.  

Today, let’s pray the following for our sons and daughters:

  1. That they would gladly take their seat on the Rock.

  2. They would find rest in the Lord.

  3. That when life is hard, Godly friends would uphold them and carry the burden with them until the battle is won.

  4. That our sons and daughters would understand they don’t need to be strong on their own- God will sustain them and provide brothers and sisters in Christ to stand with them...and that they would accept that help, encouragement and support.


Pray without ceasing


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Sunday Worship: Meeting God

Today, as you worship and rest, take a moment to ponder this Puritan Prayer.


Meeting God

Great God, in public and private, in sanctuary and home, may my life be steeped in prayer, filled with the spirit of grace and supplication, each prayer perfumed with the incense of atoning blood. Help me, defend me, until from praying ground I pass to the realm of unceasing praise. Urged by my need, invited by Your promises, called by Your Spirit, I enter Your presence, worshipping You with godly fear, awed by Your majesty, greatness, glory, but encouraged by Your love.

I am all poverty as well as all guilt, having nothing of my own with which to repay You, but I bring Jesus to You in the arms of faith, pleading His righteousness to offset my iniquities, rejoicing that He will weigh down the scales for me, and satisfy Your justice. I bless You that great sin draws out great grace, that, although the least sin deserves infinite punishment because done against an infinite God, yet there is mercy for me, for where guilt is most terrible, there Your mercy in Christ is most free and deep. Bless me by revealing to me more of His saving merits, by causing Your goodness to pass before me, by speaking peace to my contrite heart; strengthen me to give You no rest untiI Christ shall reign supreme within me in every thought, word, and deed, in a faith that purifies the heart, overcomes the world, works by love, fastens me to You, and ever clings to the cross.



Eternal Life Ministries. (n.d.). Puritan Prayers. https://eternallifeministries.org/prayers.htm#Longings%20after%20God. 



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