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Check Your Roots

Colossians 2:6-7  “So then, just as you received Christ Jesus as Lord, continue to live your lives in him,  rooted and built up in him, strengthened in the faith as you were taught, and overflowing with thankfulness.”


As parents, we’re burdened to see our sons and daughters continue walking with the Lord and growing in their spiritual lives and understanding.  We want to see them living the abundant life!  We want them to live victoriously in a world that seeks to drag them down.  How can we pray to that end more effectively?


The Apostle Paul, in Colossians, encourages us with several directives that are aimed at strengthening our spiritual walk and protecting us from the enemy..  The first is to “continue” to live our lives in Him.  That word “continue” is the word “peripateo'' in Greek and it means to walk, to make one’s way, to progress or conduct oneself (1).  It’s the word from which we get the word ‘perpetual’.  So if we’re continuing in Christ it means that we are growing in our faith and our lives exemplify a continued progression toward Christ and toward becoming like Him.  It doesn’t stop.  We can not be static.  We’re not to be passive.  So our first point of prayer this week is that our sons and daughters would continue to walk with the Lord and grow in Him.


But that’s not all.  We’re told to be rooted.  “Rhizoo” (2) is the Greek word for “rooted” and it means to be planted…not just set or placed like plastic flowers stuck in a garden.  We’re to be firmly rooted, growing, digging our roots in and blossoming gloriously, bearing fruit.  We do that by digging deeply into the Word- not just listening and walking away, but taking it in and letting it change us, strengthen us and make us firm in our faith. We want deep roots, not shallow wimpy ones.  Prayer point number two is that our sons and daughters would have strong, healthy roots and that the ‘fertilizer’ they apply would be spiritually organic- straight from the Word and poured out by the Holy Spirit.  


The next directive is to be built up in Him.  Note that it’s not just a general “building up”, but being built up in HIM.  The Greek, epoikodomeo (3), defines this as being built upon.  Have you ever seen a beautiful majestic tree that was uprooted by a storm?  Although the tree looked sturdy, the roots spread broadly, but not deeply.   It lacked a strong foundation.  Whatever it chose to dig its roots into and around wasn’t strong enough to allow the tree to stand in the storm. When the storm came through, the tree was quickly toppled over.  The whole thing was uprooted and what was left after the storm gave  evidence that the tree lacked healthy roots... The ‘surface’ beauty of the tree belied the weakness of its foundation.

Our lives are the dwelling place of Christ.  We need a good foundation for our faith, but we need to be built in Him as well so that our lives reflect His Presence.  As parents, we likely laid the foundation with our children.  But now it falls on them to build upon it and make it their own according to the guidelines provided in Scripture- God’s building code..  Pray that our sons and daughters continue to grow and build their faith with solid teaching and wise understanding of the Word.


Finally, Paul encourages us to be ‘established’ or made firm and sure and abounding with thanksgiving.  If we’re established, we are strong in our faith and we’ll be overflowing with gratitude for the Lord’s blessings and the certainty of His promises.  If we’re growing, we’ll be overflowing! 


So today, let’s take some time to pray these things over our sons and daughters…and ourselves and the whole Body of believers.  Let’s overflow with thankfulness because the Lord doesn’t stop working in us but continues until He completes that good work He started in us!!


“Father, thank you for the promises in Your Word that encourage us and show us the way we should go.  I pray that You would help (name) today to continue to walk in You.  Lord, help them to stick to the narrow way and not veer off toward the wide road that leads to destruction (Mt 7:14).  Give them good teaching and healthy spiritual friendships and discipleship that will build their foundation and allow them to be properly planted.  Help them to flourish and bear fruit.  Lord, I pray that they would be established both in their own quiet time and in Church.  Give them relationships that would sharpen and encourage them and help them to overflow with thanksgiving for all that You’ve done and will continue to do.  I pray this in Jesus’ name, Amen.”



Pray Without Ceasing.



  1. G4043 - peripateō - Strong's Greek Lexicon (kjv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g4043/kjv/tr/0-1/

  2. G4492 - rhizoō - Strong's Greek Lexicon (kjv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g4492/kjv/tr/0-1/

  3. G2026 - epoikodomeō - Strong's Greek Lexicon (kjv). Retrieved from https://www.blueletterbible.org/lexicon/g2026/kjv/tr/0-1/


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Focused on the Storm or the Savior?

Most people have heard about the miracle of how Jesus fed the five thousand with just a young boy’s lunch of five loaves and two fish.  He gave thanks and then broke it apart…and apart, and He kept going until there was enough to feed over five thousand people…with leftovers collected afterward.  If we were witnesses to that, we’d all likely be marveling for days afterward.  The disciples were front row witnesses.  Yet, despite that and all the other miracles they’d seen, their short term memory seemed fragile when they faced something scary, something out of their control.

That’s where we pick up our passage, Matthew 14:22-32.  Watch how the disciples react and respond; take note of the underlined portions.

“Immediately Jesus made the disciples get into the boat and go on ahead of him to the other side, while he dismissed the crowd. After he had dismissed them, he went up on a mountainside by himself to pray. Later that night, he was there alone, and the boat was already a considerable distance from land,  buffeted by the waves because the wind was against it.

Shortly before dawn Jesus went out to them, walking on the lake. When the disciples saw him walking on the lake, they were terrified. “It’s a ghost,” they said, and cried out in fear.

But Jesus immediately said to them: “Take courage! It is I. Don’t be afraid.”  

“Lord, if it’s you,” Peter replied, “tell me to come to you on the water.”

“Come,” he said.

Then Peter got down out of the boat, walked on the water and came toward Jesus.  But when he saw the wind, he was afraid and, beginning to sink, cried out, “Lord, save me!”

Immediately Jesus reached out his hand and caught him. “You of little faith,” he said, “why did you doubt?”

And when they climbed into the boat, the wind died down. Then those who were in the boat worshiped him, saying, “Truly you are the Son of God.””

There are six things we can learn from this passage that can encourage us as we parent and pray.

First:

“and the boat was already a considerable distance from land,  buffeted by the waves because the wind was against it.”

How many times do we feel buffeted and beat up by life because it seems everything is against us?  Life is hard.  Circumstances are painful.  Other people are difficult.  The wind of life is often working against us and we’re pushed back, pushed down and pushed to our limits….but, friends, Who is the maker of the wind?  Our Lord and Savior Jesus…we need to remember that.  

Second:

“they were terrified. “It’s a ghost,” they said, and cried out in fear.”  

Remember, the disciples had just been with Jesus a short time before this happened.  Yet they panicked.  They suffered short term memory issues. They forgot that the Master of the Universe and the Lord of Creation was just a shout away…. We’re more like the disciples than we often care to admit.  When we are afraid, we often default to panic and the immediate need to fix or control the situation. Instead, we need to call on the Savior.

Third:

But Jesus immediately said to them: “Take courage! It is I. Don’t be afraid.””  

Jesus sees our struggle.  He understands our fear.  He knows that we are mortal and fragile and we are overwhelmed and intimidated by things that are out of our control.  

When our children feared something and cried out, we didn’t wait until they’d suffered an acceptable amount of time.  We didn’t allow them to ‘tough it out’ to help them learn.  No, we would quickly move to comfort and soothe them, tell them we were there with them and tell them there was no need to be afraid.  Look at Jesus’ words above!!  Isn’t that just like a Good Father?.  God doesn’t wait until we’ve suffered long enough in our fear…He reassures us immediately.  He reminds us that He’s there with us and He tells us we have nothing to fear.

Fourth:

“Lord, if it’s you,” Peter replied, “tell me to come to you on the water.”  

Ah, Peter; don’t you just love impulsive, energetic, passionate Peter?! Take note of Peter’s first words….Lord, if it’s you…..  

There was some doubt there and a bit of a challenge too.  But Jesus didn’t reprimand him.  Jesus didn’t ask Peter what his motives were.  He didn’t ask him whether he was qualified.  Jesus welcomed him.  He knows our hearts.  He sees our doubt and skepticism.  He understands our fear and our mistrust.  He sees that we want to believe, but our humanness gets in the way.  Jesus welcomes us anyway.  Step out and bring Him your doubt and fear.  Go on.   

Fifth:

But when he saw the wind, he was afraid and, beginning to sink, cried out, “Lord, save me!”  

Peter took a few steps, then realized where he was and what He was doing….and he began to sink.  Yet, instead of wringing  his hands and wondering what on earth he should do, he cried out to Jesus.  

He got it right.  He didn’t try to solve it on his own.  He didn’t tell the Lord to wait until he figured it out.  He didn’t push away the hand that was there to save him, insistent he could do it himself.  He cried out, “Lord save me!”

Here’s the thing, every time the disciples took their eyes off of Jesus and focused on the situation and circumstances surrounding them, they became doubtful and fearful.  Peter saw the wind.  He felt the waves.  He looked down at the water instead of into the eyes of Jesus.  He succumbed to the situation rather than surrendering to the Savior.

When circumstances start to pull us under, all we need to do is cry out to Jesus “Lord, save me!”  

and then…

Sixth:

Immediately Jesus reached out his hand and caught him. “You of little faith,” he said, “why did you doubt?”  

Jesus IMMEDIATELY reached out to save Peter.  He reached out and caught him.  He saved him.  He rescued him, not because he deserved it or earned it, but because Jesus loved him.

When we’re praying for our loved ones, whether our sons and daughters, family members or those  for whom we’re burdened, we can become overwhelmed with the circumstances and lose sight of the Savior.  And when we do that, we begin to doubt Him, we question His goodness, we become impatient with His timing.  We are uncertain of how He will answer and we start to lack confidence in His grace and mercy.  We may even lose trust…but why?  Because we’re looking at the circumstances and not the Savior.

Just to recap

  1. The storm may be against us, but we serve the Lord of the wind and the waves

  2. We can’t allow our fear to take the throne and control our responses. Let’s remind ourselves of the Lords power and faithfulness. He is able to calm the storm!

  3. Jesus will always remind us that He’s with us, we have nothing to fear if we are trusting in Him.

  4. Jesus sees our doubts. He loves us anyway and He’ll always welcome us to come to Him.

  5. When we’re sinking, all we need to do is cry out for Jesus to save us. We don’t need to fix it ourselves.

  6. Jesus responds to our cries! Always!

Do you feel like you’re drowning in a sea of circumstances?  Call out to the Lord.  Is your son or daughter in the midst of a storm?  Call out to the Lord.  Did you get a phone call, a text or a message that shook you?  Call out to the Lord.  He has a 100% response rate and His strength is unmatched.  Trust Him.  Let’s not lose sight of the Savior, friends.  

“Father, You know this storm (go on, explain it to the Lord)  But I know You are Lord of the wind and the waves.  Help me to focus on You and not on the situation.  Help me not to fear what might be, but be confident in what I know is True.  You are the Way, the Truth, and the Life.  Right now I want to pray for (name).  You know their needs and their struggles.  You see them in the midst of the storm and the wind that is carrying them away from You, from Your safety and refuge.  I pray that You would go to (name), Lord.  Meet them where they are.  Make Yourself evident to (name) today.  I pray that in the midst of their turmoil, fear and doubt that Your voice would be loud and clear “It is I, don’t be afraid”.  Lord, calm (name)’s heart today and give them courage to trust You.  Lord, if they are drowning in the storm, reach out and save them immediately.  Draw (name)’s gaze to You.  Encourage them with Your comfort, your Presence and Your reassurance.  Jesus, they need You.  I pray that they would see their need and, instead of trying to fix it themselves, they would cry out to You.   I pray that You would stand in the midst of the storm with them and hold them close.  Lord, hear their cry and answer immediately.  I trust You and I know You can do more than I could ever ask or imagine.  I pray that You would be Lord of the storm today and bring peace, calm and rescue.  Bring (name) into safe fellowship with You.  In Jesus’ name, Amen.”

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Pray without ceasing.

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God Uses the Storms

Today, read Jonah, chapter 1

We all know the story of Jonah.  But let’s have a quick recap, shall we?  Jonah was a prophet of God, called to take God’s message of pending judgment to a city called Nineveh.  Nineveh wasn’t just a city, the Bible calls it a ‘great city’- it had significance….and it was full of wickedness.


Jonah knew all about Nineveh and he was less than interested in going there to share God’s warning and in how they should repent.  In Jonah’s eyes, they deserved what was coming.


So Jonah ran.  He ran in the opposite direction, away from Nineveh and away from God.


Let’s stop here.  Do you have a son or daughter who is running from God?  He sees and He knows!  Don’t despair.  God is working…


Now, back to Jonah…God let him run.  He let Jonah board a ship headed for Tarsus.  And Jonah wasn’t shy about sharing why he was headed to Tarsus.  He told the sailors he was running from God.  (1:10).  But the sailors didn’t know or fear the Almighty God.  There were many gods among them and it was more of a “Hey, whatever works for you, man” sort of thing. So running from God wasn't a cause for concern…until the storm.


God brought a storm that was wild and fierce.  It challenged these seasoned sailors and after doing all they could on their own to save the ship, they began asking who was responsible for making all this trouble.  Clearly, they sensed a spiritual aspect to this storm.  


And Jonah?  He was indifferent…asleep in the bottom of the ship- so disconnected that the captain had to wake him from a deep sleep.  You see, in his running from God, he’d stopped listening to the Lord and he became insensitive and indifferent to God’s working.  (Sometimes, when we run from God, we reach a place where we no longer hear His voice, but God is still working).


Jonah owned up to his part in the storm.  When he confessed that he worshiped the God of Heaven, who made the sea and the land, the sailors were struck with fear.  Now, here is where the account grows even more interesting… Jonah’s solution to save the ship and the men on it was to have them throw him overboard.  We don’t know what his thoughts were- had he had a change of heart?  Did he know God would save him?  Was he simply owning his defiance and accepting his ‘fate’?  The sailors didn’t want to do it…they continued trying everything else, but finally agreed that in order to have any chance at survival, they must do what Jonah said.  


They threw him overboard.  And they pleaded with God to not hold them accountable for Jonah’s life.  They pleaded to God.  Did you catch that?  God used this storm to bring these sailors to a realization that there is One True God.  They prayed, offered sacrifices to Him. They feared the Lord and made vows to Him.  (1:15-16)  Sometimes the storm isn’t just about us. Sometimes, God uses the storms to impact those around us and He uses our storms to bring others to Him.   


And Jonah?  Well, God provided a fish to swallow him.  And here’s the thing…no one saw what went on inside the fish.  No one.  Yet, God was working.  Remember that.


Friends, is your son or daughter in the midst of a storm?  Step back and look at the big picture.  Maybe God will use that storm to speak into their life…or maybe He’ll use it to speak into someone else’s life.  That storm might not only be for your son or daughter.  Does it seem like they’re indifferent to God?  Keep praying.  God is still working. Does it seem like the consequences of their choices have swallowed them whole- all is lost, there is no hope?  God is STILL working- remember, no one saw what went on inside the fish.  But God did.  And he put Jonah there for a reason.  And He’s allowed your son or daughter to be where they are for a reason.  He’s not done working.  Trust Him.  Continue to pray.  Ask God to calm the storm and reassure your faith.  The next part of the story is coming… and God uses it for good!


“Father, You are the Almighty God, Maker of Heaven and Earth, Lord of the sea and the land.  I trust You.  Lord, sometimes all I can see is the storm.  I worry for (name) and long for them to surrender to You.  I know You are working, yet, I don’t see it.  Give me spiritual eyes to recognize that even in the storm, You’re working and You don’t stop.  I pray that (name) would grow sensitive to Your voice.  Make their heart tender toward You.  Burden them with their sin, their defiance, their indifference and draw them to surrender.  I pray, Lord, that you would use this storm to shake them from their complacency to stand before You and acknowledge You are Lord of all.  Father, put (name) wherever they need to be in order to hear Your voice.  And help me to trust You that even when I can’t see what’s going on ‘inside the fish’ that You are there and You’re moving, changing hearts and drawing those who have run away, back to You.  Lord, I pray that You would draw (name) back to you today.  In Jesus’ name, amen.”


Pray without ceasing.

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A Good God. A Strong Refuge.

Nahum 1:7 “The Lord is good, a stronghold in the day of trouble; and He knows those who trust in Him”

Tsunamis, storms, tornadoes, they all stir fear and give us visions of people desperate for survival.  We see pictures and footage of people frantically clinging to something, anything that will anchor them from being swept away, torn from safety and carried off.  In moments like that, people are not worried about superficial things.  They are desperate for life, for survival, for their very breath.

When life becomes tumultuous, what do our sons and daughters hold onto for security and safety?  The tenuous security of material wealth?  That can disappear in moments.  Perhaps a relationship?  Any relationship involves imperfect people who will disappoint and can never provide perfect refuge or peace.   Maybe a job or location that promises ‘better days’?  The grass is rarely greener.  

Or, do they find and cling to something good….really good…. As in the goodness of God, ‘good’.

When we anchor ourselves in Christ, we find a refuge and strength that will never be shaken because we’re rooting ourselves in the One who is good.  He is able to withstand any storm and calm it with a word.  He can stand up against any enemy- even spiritual forces, and render them powerless.  He is able to ensure our very survival even in the most dire situation.   Oh, friends, He Is Good!!


Let’s pray today that our sons and daughters believe with all their hearts that the Lord is GOOD and that they trust Him, fully.  And let’s pray they look to the Lord for their safety and refuge, always.

“Lord, the abundance and depth of your goodness is beyond our understanding.  We can never fully comprehend how amazing it is.  It is always ready to comfort, shelter and care for us.  Help us to see You as the ultimate GOOD and run to You for our refuge.  Don’t let us fall into a sense of false security in things or relationships.  They can be good blessings from You, but they cannot take the place that You should occupy in our hearts and minds.  Lord, I pray that (name) would know and trust that You are good and a stronghold in times of trouble.  Please, be the One they always turn to when they need a refuge.  Always be the One they reach for when they need stability and strength.  I pray that their life would exemplify someone who follows after You, proclaims Your goodness and testifies to Your perfect provision of refuge.  In Jesus’ name, amen.”


Pray without ceasing.

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