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You Guide Me with Your Counsel

Psalm 73:23-26 “Yet I am always with you;

    you hold me by my right hand.

You guide me with your counsel,

    and afterward you will take me into glory. Whom have I in heaven but you?

    And earth has nothing I desire besides you.

My flesh and my heart may fail,

    but God is the strength of my heart

    and my portion forever.”


Healthy people typically don’t feel the need for a counselor.  It’s those who are feeling like they’re falling apart, that something isn’t right and they can’t fix it on their own. When things are going badly and life seems to be spiraling out of control, we long for someone who will listen to us and tell us it will get better.  Yet, it’s then, too, that we most often feel quite alone.  


We all have times when we struggle with our emotions and need someone to help us find our footing and ensure that we remain grounded.  When we are faced with a dilemma we want objective guidance that is wise.  And if we’re suffering loss or trauma, we need someone to come alongside us, hold us up, tell us the pain won’t always be this intense.  We want someone to give us glimmers of hope in our shattered world .  It is in those times we desperately want someone to hear us, affirm us and give solid, comforting advice.  We long for a counselor who will fulfill all those things.


Jesus is that Wonderful Counselor who is always with us.  Always.  He is that strong Presence we can cling to when we’re struggling.  Psalm 73 says “you hold me by my right hand”… In ancient times, the  right hand was the symbol of power, control and authority.  So, think about it… if God holds us by our right hand, who is in control?  What is God saying by coming alongside us like that?  He’s saying, “trust me, hold onto me, I’ve got this and I’ve got you- you don’t need to do this alone and you don’t need to figure it out.”


Then, Psalm 73 says “you guide me with your counsel and afterward you take me into glory.”  Oh, friends, when we’re at the end of ourselves, we desperately want someone to guide us, don’t we?  Our wonderful counselor does that- consistently and endlessly.  He doesn’t just stand by us until we’re ‘good’, He stands by us each and every moment of every day until we are in His presence, eternally.  What a wonderful counselor!


Today, let’s pray that  our sons and daughters would take Jesus’ hand and let Him guide them each and every day.  Pray they would look for and listen to His counsel.  Pray that God would be the strength of their heart and their portion forever. Pray, because this world is fighting to pull them in the other direction.



Christmas Season Challenge:

Pray for those who are grieving this Christmas season, that God would indeed hold them by the hand and guide them with His counsel. Pray that they would know His comfort, peace and joy despite the heart-shattering grief they also know too well.  Pray that God would be the strength of their heart and their portion forever.  Pray they would come to embrace and follow the Wonderful Counselor.


Pray without ceasing.


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24/7 Counselor

Psalm 16:7 “I will praise the Lord, who counsels me; even at night my heart instructs me.”


Have you ever gone to bed with a dilemma or problem that needed solving, only to wake in the morning with a solution to what you were pondering the night before?  Maybe you woke up with a song in your heart or a verse on your tongue that fills you with hope and you wonder how it got there.  Our brains are quite fascinating, so much so that we spend a lifetime trying to figure them out!  God designed them to do wonderful things that even science and doctors can’t fully explain.  When you weave in the beauty and mystery of the Holy Spirit working in us, it’s amazing!


While we sleep our conscious self is, well, unconscious, but our brain and body are still very much at work.  We can still hear things and our brains work to give meaning and make sense of it.  And, oh how we dream!!  Those thoughts and memories stored in our brains turn into stories and dramas and we wake up only to realize that while we slept and rested, we were actually quite busy.  So, if that’s the case, how much more our spiritual awareness continues to be active and alive.  When Psalm 16:7 tells us the Lord counsels us- even at night!  It’s true!  


Here is the wonderful thing about sleep.  Not only does it restore and refresh our physical selves, but it works in our brains to cement the learning that took place during the day.  “Your brain is making a map of the information,” — “making new connections and breaking other ones.” (1)  Sleep enables our brains to lock in the information we learn and makes meaningful connections so we can recall and use that information in new and meaningful ways.  Without sleep, our learning suffers and our memory falters.  

Just as a scary movie stays with us long after we fall asleep and can cause bad dreams, God’s word in our hearts and minds, it is the ‘material’ He uses to encourage, chastise, and instruct us.  Even at night, our heart can instruct us, as long as the ‘textbook’ is God-approved. So, what are we putting into our hearts and minds during the day that can then be confirmed and used by the Lord at night while we sleep?  Friends, this is why it’s so important that we spend time in the Word. We want our minds to be consumed with what is true, honest, just, pure and lovely (Phil 4:8) so that when we sleep, our minds and hearts are moved and reinforced by the truth of God.  If we are going to be receptive to God’s counsel, we need to know His word.  If we want to say, like David in Psalm 16 “I praise the Lord who counsels me” we have to be a willing participant.  

  • Psalm 119:11 “I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.”  

  • Psalm 16:8 “I have set the LORD always before me; because he is at my right hand, I shall not be shaken.”

  • Psalm 119:55 “In the night, Lord, I remember your name, that I may keep your law.”

  • Psalm 119:105 “ Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path.”  


Let’s turn the ‘night light’ on, let’s allow the Lord to move and work in our hearts and minds, even while we sleep.  Our Wonderful Counselor is working 24/7 to speak truth into our lives.  Can we do our part to ensure the knowledge we consume is worthy of His name?


Today, let’s pray that our sons and daughters are drenching themselves in the truth of God’s word, day and night.  Let’s pray that there is much in their hearts and minds that God can use to counsel and instruct them.

Christmas Season Prayer Challenge: When you see a sign that says ‘open 24 hours’ pray for the people who walk into that business. Pray that they would come to know the Wonderful Counselor who is always ready to move and work, redeem and restore.

Pray without ceasing.

  1. NBCUniversal News Group. (2017, October 23). What happens in Your body and brain while you sleep. NBCNews.com. Retrieved December 8, 2021, from https://www.nbcnews.com/better/health/what-happens-your-body-brain-while-you-sleep-ncna805276.


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The Ultimate Counselor

Isaiah 11:2-3 “The Spirit of the Lord will rest on him—the Spirit of wisdom and of understanding, the Spirit of counsel and of might, the Spirit of the knowledge and fear of the Lord- and he will delight in the fear of the Lord.”


When we need counsel, we look for someone who is well-qualified, right?  We want deep wisdom, excellent training, good critical thinking, excellent connections and references and deep integrity.  Why?  Because we’re entrusting that person with our needs, our thoughts, our vulnerabilities and our defense.  We want to be able to have peace in how they advise us. We want the best.


Isaiah ensures us that our Wonderful Counselor is just that.  He is well-qualified, filled with the Spirit of the Lord, the spirit of wisdom and understanding- He knows all there is to know and can provide the most insightful course of action that will always be in your best interest.  

He possesses the Spirit of counsel and might- no courtroom, no judge, no government official can outthink or overpower Him.  No one has authority over Him..  He is the strongest of the strong and the mightiest in the land.  He is our protector and shield.

And if that isn’t enough, He possesses the knowledge and fear of the Lord and He delights in the Lord.  He has unquestionable integrity.  He doesn’t cut corners or cheat; He isn’t disingenuous, He is authentic, honest and exceptional in every way.  He is the ultimate counselor.


Look, we’re not walking up to a booth and offering 5 cents for advice.  We’re not having to track down a grimy office in a dark building to get advice from someone who seems less than trustworthy.  We’re not even needing to check references, track records and work history.  Our Wonderful Counselor is the finest God provides because He is God Himself.  Why should we scurry around looking for ‘others’ or substitutes or a ‘bargain option’ when all Jesus is and will do is ours because we are His child?!


Today, let’s pray for our sons and daughters that they will understand that Jesus is the ultimate Counselor, full of wisdom and understanding.  Pray that they would trust Him with their burdens and challenges.  Pray that they would rest in His strength and might.  Pray that their hearts would desire Jesus and His integrity and fear of the Lord over the ‘bargain options’ that offer cheap counsel that cannot save. Pray that they don’t run themselves ragged looking everywhere else for what is only, completely found in Jesus.


Christmas Season challenge: when you see a ‘sale’ advertisement stop and pray for those who are looking for answers and counsel in every place but in Jesus.  Pray that their eyes would be opened to the deception and that they would be protected from ‘false advertising’.


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